Dear forum members,

I know next to nothing about Magick.. so hopefully I'm at the right place, and posting my question at the right forum...

Ever since I've been a kid, bad things used to happen to me. But I always thought this is just a series of coincidences. About 7 years ago it got much worse, practically everything I got involved with went bad - mostly things out of my control. It was really frustrating knowing I have bad luck, and the fact that other people started commenting about it as well (friends, coworkers, doctors) was almost more than I could take.. I've heard so many times: "..you really have bad luck, do you know that?".

I've been told that it's possible someone put a curse on me, ages ago. I didn't know what to think about this, so I just carried on, hoping my luck will change one day.

[hey, I just got an email from my boss insulting me. See what I mean...(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) OK, I'll continue]

However, about 1 year ago it got much, much worse. Nowadays I just feel extremely unmotivated about things, because everything I get involved with, goes either bad or extremely bad. I know my attitude doesn't help, but it's not just that. I'm just so fed up with this nightmare. I even thought of ending my life.. yes, some things are THAT bad.

I don't know what I did to deserve this......

So.. I wanted to ask for advice.. what can I do??? HELP!!!...

Naturally, I looked online for advice, and of course, found places that promised help. But I have a strong feeling everything I found would be one of those places that would take thousands of $$$ and nothing would change.

And then I thought of coming to this forum.....

Please - any advice would be greatly appreciated,

Yours truly,

Sad S.

This post has been edited by Sad Soul: Jan 3 2007, 06:27 PM

Hi Sad Soul
Welcome to the site. I can feel for you. Certainly there are people on the net and in different locations who will promise you things, but just take your money. There are many possibilities though that can be done and won't cost you anything other than materials. I was thinking in terms of good luck charms, prosperity rituals and perhaps inspirational materials to help you break out of what seems to be a defeatist mind set. Here is a link to a site containing instructions to make your own good luck charms
http://www.luckymojo.com/hoodoo.html Just scroll down to find the charms section. There are also downloadable articles in this forum on becoming more succssful. Perhaps the others will have more ideas..

This post has been edited by Goibniu: Jan 3 2007, 07:54 PM

Thanks for the reply, Goibniu.

I have been ignoring this for several years, but it doesn't seem to making any difference. The mindset is a very recent thing. It just seems this bad luck thing is stronger than me.

I'm wondering whether good luck charms will be enough? This seems so.. potent - and I've never tried to do anything like that. Do I stand a chance..?

Sad S.

yo :-)

Well if its a nasty curse, do you know the Necronomicon spellbook. there is a relatively easy method to cut off evil magick and curses by calling upon TUKU. It should work fine as i guess i am NOT in good terms with lots of black magick practitioners in my country and i am still going strong.

Try looking for the spellbook in the forum itself. Then read the first pages where it states some 7 simple steps to do the spell. The dollars it could cost you would be a fraction of a dollar as you will need may be 2 to 3 candles and some incense sticks. ;-)



Mystick ;-)



P.S. I guess a sort of exorcism also could be made to get rid of any shit spirit that is here only to bring you bad luck.. and that too you can find in the necronomicon :-)

Let's not jump directly into the nec here... The guy's never worked with magic before.

I suggest to you, Sad Soul, to start performing cleansing rituals. Focus, feel your pure emotion flow through you, focus through the bad luck, the pain, and the bad things that you by now no doubt can tangibly feel as a weight on your shoulders. Accentuate your cleansing if you need by taking a bath or shower. I do this, several times a week. It helps me concentrate when I feel I might do something stupid otherwise. Doing this removes the fog on your mind, and if it's been so long, it might take a very very long time. But, the eventual aim is to make it obvious to you whether or not someone has cursed you. If you have been cursed there are ways to "burn it out", so to speak.

These are rituals, again, that do not require a single thing besides for you to concentrate on the emotions you deem as good. Those things in your life which have kept you going against all odds, which have made you strong, in the face of horrible agony. Concentrate on them, and how much you love them. Feel the emotion's power wrack your body, and force it through, feeling the negative energy fade away like so much dross and chaff. It is your body, this has no power over you. Force it out. You will emerge a new man, knowing fully that you are not the same person that this bad luck has plagued, and it's a very religious-feeling experience, even if you're not a religious person.

It may take a few tries to get into the mindset, but remember that for surviving as long as you have, you are strong, and you are worth every bit of time any one of us spends trying to help you.

Peace to you.

Thanks for the advice, Mystick and Isaiah!

Necronomicon sounds.. scary. Isn't messing with that dangerous (for me at least)?

Isaiah, will I be able to defeat this thing..? I really don't know anything about Magick, but from watching movies & TV I can't help but wonder whether I stand a chance on my own...

I just want to be normal in this respect..


Thanks so much for the help, it feels very good to get support!

Sad S.

Not the spellbook. Try the spellbook not the necronomicon directly. Just as precaution, sprinkle salt water about 60 times around the place you gonna do the spell.. You even aint need a circle for the spellbook method...

regards
Mystick...

If you interested and if you really determined with the spellbook method, let me know :-)

Ah. Forgive me for saying, but this is where most Neophytes (please forgive the label, I'm not trying to force it on you) become immersed in magic as it was truly meant to be, encountering the lies surrounding it. Hollywood glamourizes magic, makes it seem friendly, open, a freeform mystic force. It is none of those things. There is a rational explanation with hard sciences for every effect you achieve with magic. It is nothing like hollywood makes it seem. Even the most disparaged of the arts has a rational explanation, energy theory being the forefront, the flagship if you will. And like any other science, if you pick up something bigger than you it has the potential to hurt you.

This thing is another energy affecting you. There's nothing to say that you can't counteract it, surpass it, hell... Become stronger, channel it back at the caster, if it is indeed a hex. The thing to remember is that curses and hexes work their best on someone who is not familiar with ambient energy, and if you start focusing energy into yourself, the flow through the hex or curse will be disrupted. In fact, I've noticed, the smallest energy flux can completely ruin an otherwise good hex. I'm not one for labels here, but if it makes any more sense to you this way, I'm a black magician among other things.

If you want a front-first, top-up, newbie-friendly approach to magic heavily grounded in hard science, try this page. If nothing else, it's worth the read. Very interesting. I've been practicing for over a decade, and I still got some useful information out of it.

(Note: Please don't advertise/spam competitors site - thanks, MODSQUAD)
Use Google function with pertinant phrasing...

Regards,
Isaiah

This post has been edited by bym: Jan 6 2007, 12:40 AM

This sounds like very good advice. Thank you so much - I will check out these resources!

Sad S.

Well... it's not working. Another very bad thing happened, and now I may need surgery or hospitalization..

I just read through your post, and it definately sounds like you could use some help.
the majority of curses rely on our belief in them in order to work. In Magic, the effect you get is the end result you have the most faith in. For example, If I have more faith in failure than success, then I will fail. In other words, the belief that we are cursed often causes the curse itself. The faith in a curse can build for a long time, and this makes it difficult to remove.
I would certainly be willing to do what I can to remove any possible hexes or curses apon you, but you would still have to have faith in that for it to truly be successful. This is the main problem with having another person remove a curse. In the end, it still comes down to your own faith.

This post has been edited by Arkayne Magii: Jan 17 2007, 11:03 PM

I understand. And I definitely believe in a cure - otherwise I would not have been in the forum in the first place.

Many many thanks!!!

This post has been edited by Sad Soul: Jan 18 2007, 05:00 AM

Sad Soul,

Sounds like you need a major uncrossing done. Check out http://www.molochsorcery.com/uncross.html

Dear Sad Soul,

There can be many causes of bad luck. In Purple King astrology, we believe in 12 year cycles. You could have 12 wonderful, wonderful years, then cycle into some bad years. In both cases, you can soften the effects with your own will.

In Eastern traditions, poor luck (ill fortune) can indicate poor karmic debt (from either earlier in your life, or past lives). The simple cure is to create good karma (if you believe in karma -- it's a fairly universal concept, and benign). If you already help others, and pile on the good karma, other possibilities present.

You situation, personal beliefs, etc, can all contribute to ill-luck. In business, we always say that 'success attracts success" and "failure attracts failure." This is also somewhat true in general. Another example. If you have strong feelings of guilt about something -- religious, karmic, or otherwise -- you will find you attract your own ill-luck, too.

Or, it could be a curse, if you have someone vindictive in your life (without background, only you could know).

I would always start -- as with any act of magick: defensive, pro-active, constructive, or even destructive -- with DIVINATION. Normally Tarot for me. DIAGNOSE (as in a doctor), first. Find out the cause. If you can't work the Tarot, it's an easier learning curve than psychic self-defense, which may or may not help depending on the problem (it's like taking antibiotics for a headache if you don't diagnose first). Anyway, knowledge is power. Find out what the cause is. Bad Karma? Create good karma through deeds, positive magick, a talisman to attract good Karma. A curse? Well, if you now know this from a solid divination, then work on a defense. Divine the best defense (Tarot, runes, scrying, bamboo sticks, whatever works for you). (Tarot cards are not Yes/No... they're also how-to, which is why I recommend them for magick) Amulet (defensive), Talisman (attracting forces), Servitor (guardian), deflecting the curse on its creator, creating good will and karma... it's best (necessary, almost) to find the cause first -- as with a "doctor" trying to diagnose a sickness, to do the examination first (metaphor, sorry, I'm in the mood for them).

Once you know, no matter what your level of skill, you can pursue one solution you know will work.

Sad Soul,
It is my belief that if you believe you are cursed, then, in a sense, you are cursing yourself. I work in an industry where luck is a huge factor in success. I have come to believe that certain people are truly blessed. I see it each day, year in and year out... the same persons get lucky, again and again. No matter what they do, they seem to always land on their feet. The one thing those people have in common is a positive outlook on life. They don't just believe they will succeed, they know they will. Now, if one believes in astrology, then certain aspects are ordained at the time of birth. That doesn't mean a person will be lucky or unlucky all of their lives... it just means that each of us has a particular path that we must follow in order to achieve success. Think of water in a stream... it always seeks the easiest course to find it's level. It flows around obstacles and not over them (where possible). But each stream is different, even though they are all on the path to the same level.

If you are having trouble obtaining success on your current path, then seek another. You will eventually find the easiest way around your obstacles. If you convince yourself that you are cursed, then you will be cursed. You have to forget the past and look at each day as a new start, a new beginning, a new chance to succeed. Eventually, you will find the path that is right for you. Just have faith. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

to some degree i agree with Mezu, and i would say to anyone who would ask what Sad Soul asked, to see good astrologer first, through astrological analysis one should be able to deternime precisely nature of influence, and then banishing of that specific influence or well made talisman have to work. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/i_triangle.gif) (and all that could be done by third person)

Hi Sojrn,

I'm sorry it took me so long to reply.. I've been going through some bad times. It's a difficult period... although I'm trying hard to stay positive.

Shall I attempt this uncrossing?


Thank you, Mezu.. 12 wonderful years.. well, right now even 12 wonderful days sounds amazing. I've actually been tracking my 'good' periods, and I can safely say that since 1993 I've been very down on my luck.

As for Karma, it is very possible. But I do consider myself a very positive person now, I really do try to help. Sometimes the bad luck almost feels like a 'sign' that I shouldn't be this way (if this makes any sense), but I don't really want to change, I am satisfied with my attitude towards others..

How can I find a good person to diagnose myself? I never know whom is the real deal (so never end up going anywhere - too suspicious, perhaps).

Dynajam, I know that what you say is true, but I still cannot force my thinking to believe things will change. It's like trying to change my belief that the earth does not revolve around the sun - I know bad things will happen. Maybe I am cursing myself, but at this point it is so strong, I can't bring myself to change my thinking. I think the only thing that will change it is.. if I see things are getting better. Last month I was hoping things are.. but it was a pretty nasty month.

I know my thinking does not help.. but I can't really help it anymore..

Diana, thanks for the suggestion - how can I find a good astrologer?

Many thanks for all the advice and offers for help, I greatly appreciate this!

Sad S.

This post has been edited by Sad Soul: Mar 10 2007, 06:26 PM

Listen to this guy! This is the voice of wisdom on the subject.

Lets look at this hypothetically.

Lets say that everyone on this forum works together to put a curse on my cat. Now my cat believes that her power is so great that no one can curse her. My cat believes that because she was named after the Goddess Isis she is impervious to all magick. If the cats faith is stronger than the combined will of everyone on this forum my cat will not suffer any adverse effects.

<Note I am using my cat as an example just to be a retard.>

Now you think you are cursed. You doubt that anything will rectify the situation. Basically you are cursing yourself. I do not mean to be a dork hole but I do not have much sympathy for this type of mind state.

Fight fire with fire.

Peace!

You're not a dork hole (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) I understand and agree with what you say. But it is VERY difficult to change one's beliefs... purely on a matter of faith.

I will really try, I will.

This post has been edited by Sad Soul: Mar 11 2007, 05:13 PM

Greeting son.i understand what you are going through.there is quite abit of things to be done.firstly will have to have a through look at your astrological charts to see if what you are going through is karmic or not.There are ways to cure karmic imabalances through ritualistic magick.after that we can go on to whether its really a hex or maybe a mental block of sort(both are equally as bad).both which can be undone by charmed lemon grass oil or blessed tumeric powder.then a lucky charm,amulet or talisman would be in order to complete it.

of course like edunpanna and some of the rest said,all that would not be needed with an extremely strong willpower and strong mind,but i sense for you it is not the case as you do not have those.i believe for all proper magick we need to correct all aspects of the person in question.going through your birth chart would silence your thoughts from wondering about karmic imbalances and put you in a proper mental capacity,the magick ritual of uncrossing would put into balance your astral(spiritual) self,the bath by blessed tumeric powder and/or charmed lemon grass would cleanse your physical self and a proper talisman or amulet that you will wear will reinforce the proper state of mind and spirit and as you feel it on you physically you will reinforce it physically too.You can ask me if you have any other questions,and there are also many here more than capable of answering our questions.God bless.

Hi Sad Soul,
Well I was searching the internet researching some work I'm currently doing for someone and I came across your query on this forum. I felt I must post, because until recently I experienced 'crossing by-proxy', and what I have to say might shed some light on things for you at least.

My ex-partner was very ill-fated and when I met him he was covered in huge flea bites (despite having tried to treat the offending cat for quite some time apparently). He also had an extremely bad chest infection that he suspected at the time may have been whooping cough or similar, and he was very thin. Within six months of knowing him, bad luck began to affect me too. Out of the blue a lovely man at work began to bully me horribly, and that led to a string of events that led to me losing my good job, my home and ultimately my self-esteem, confidence and outgoing approach to life. I was baffled by the chain of events and the only way I can describe the situation, looking back, is that life felt like wading through treacle, nothing worked out, new friendships failed suddenly and crime increased to ridiculous levels in the local vicinity. Prior to meeting him I had a happy life, earned good money and all that seemed to have been missing was a lovely partner to share life with.

The relationship limped along and despite all my efforts, inexplicably I could not gain work in my field. This was unusual for me and I went to great lengths without sucess to gain meaningful employment. After a time my partner was wrongly accused of fraud and lost his job, he was run over by a lorry, his good friend was killed and he was dogged by dental problems. I felt strongly through the relationship that the power of this man's mind was manifesting these negative situations, even to the point of expecting them at every turn. The effect on me was immense, almost curselike in manifestation, but of course without conscious intent on the part of me ex - at least I hope not!

It is only since I ended the relationship that things have started to become clear in my mind about how a person, by association, might become affected by 'bad-luck by proxy', paticularly in a close relationship. Since the split everything went back to normal for me; I started dating and eventually found a wonderful, positive man...I applied for a job in my field and got it...I got onto a university course that I had been trying for the full length of my relationship with ex-partner to get onto without previous sucess. This all happened within just a few months of the split.

I suppose what I am saying is that the power of thought can become reality, both for yourself and those around you too, and if you are that powerful in manifesting the negatives in your life, be it for yourself or for others, then you can be equally as powerful in manifesting the positives.

In healing we say that your thoughts make your reality, and there are many ways to change and alter those thoughts so that every step in your life becomes a purposeful step towards your dreams and personal happiness....and not a breathless attempt to escape the next expected disaster. There are some wonderful affirmations and self-esteem building excercises online, particularly some athttp://www.more-selfesteem.com/affirmations.htm might be useful.

When dissappointments in life come along, take them as part and parcel of life, deal with them directly and assertively and then continue forward towards your dreams. Everything you do is then aimed at your personal happiness.

Make it happen Sad Soul and happiness can and will be yours.

The Law of Attraction states that whatever you think about, that is what will manifest in your life. The more you see yourself as being "cursed", the more ill-effects of that so-called "curse" you will attract into your life.

Call upon St. Michael the Archangel to cleanse you and release you from whatever hold this "curse" may have over you.



Good Luck and God Bless

Mirage

Thanks for the advice. I've been trying to change my belief system in the last week or so. So far, it's going well! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

Sad S.

I ran into the same problems in my life. Where it just seemed no matter what I did everything ended up bad. That is how I got into mystism and magic, searching for answers to this problem. Then one day I discovered that Words only form 7% or so of our communication, the rest is 38% tonality and 55% body language. I was projecting things the wrong way with my body language and tone, so it never mattered what my words meant. When I worked on that problem my whole life changed for the better.

I am not saying this is the root of your problem, just telling you what worked for my "curse"

What I would Do If I were You is simply take the following Purification Bath:
It Cleanses your Auras and gets rid of negativity, This is My own Rite, I call it a Rite because I use it everytime I feel like you do(: Which was Daily:) It works for me and I hope it helps you as well:)

Archangels' Aura Clearing Bath Ritual
Use 2 TBSP of seasalt in your next bath, burn frankincence incense in the bathroom (if you have any) & before getting into the bath hold your projectory hand over the bath water & chant:

"Archangel Gabriel, I now summon Thee
Come clear my Cords and Auras please;
Salt and water cleanse away,
All debris that I've absorbed today,
And Frankincence, Clear Me & My living space,
Of Negativity leave no trace."

Do not leave the tub until you feel like it. This Rite is all about giving to YOURSELF! This means make sure you do this at a time when you are NOT rushed by an appointment of some sort, or when you are least likely to be interrupted. Personally, I prefer before bed, After having done this a few times, it became automatic! Everey bath I take is Now a Ritual;) It has a few other perks aswell: I have fewer nightmares now, it helps me get a better night's rest, I sleep deeper, without being startled awake by night terrors. I wake up feeling refreshed, alert and well rested.

This post has been edited by Archangel_Baw: May 22 2007, 12:44 PM