Can anyone give me some advice. I use to go to these classes and there was a girl there that I know practiced wicca. for some reason I had a crush on her after a whille. It felt normal because she was my type and all but I found myself stalking her all the time and being obssesed with her. and she was just taking me for a ride like she new she had me and could play hard to get and It made me want her more.

The thing is 3 years have passed and I still have thoughts about her sometimes. It is a real problem because I wanna be released from it so I can move on instead of maybe never forgeting her. I mean she was a normal girl. girls come and go but this one keeps on staying even after I left the place.

She was only young like 16 or something and I used to look at her going through webstes on hexes but I dont think she understands the damadge it causes. Do you think that there will be a concequence for her or can she just do whatever spells and forget about it.

Maybe when I think about her. she will be thinking of me so atleast I dont need to suffer alone. what do you guys think. even better do you know any spells that could release me from this. It is awfull you may not think so but it is terribly destuctive to me and was extemely selfish of her.

Do you think I should ask for some help from a goetic and see if I cant rebalance the equation.

if you know me, you probably already know what's coming!

its all about the energy involved in the spell that connects you two, and to break that you need even greater energy

um, think more like fiery trauma and less like overwhelming force to break the troublesome linkage

so i'd say to make a lovely doll house from grass and cloth, visualizing the connection between the two of you, awwwww

if you still have anything of hers, place it in the love house where it will attract the most energy

place a doll for you with your name written on it, and a doll for her with her name written on it, deep inside the love house

perhaps in bed, with arms and legs entwined in a last and final embrace

burn the sucker to the ground, with the intent to destroy the connection utterly

drown the ashes, stirring them until they are totally dead and lifeless

then move on, unfettered

This post has been edited by esoterica: Oct 8 2009, 08:12 PM

I’ve done a few love spells before and forgot about it until the target pursued me 3 months or a year later. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/girl_devil.gif) The spell should wear off. My suggestion is to reform cleansing rituals, cut and clear spells (to rid yourself of any affection towards her) and/or reversing spells.

I wouldn’t work with a goetic demon for revenge. If you don’t have extensive experience the ritual could backfire and the demon could prey on you . I actually wouldn’t do any revenge spell work other than reversing because she could be more advance in spell work and have strong protection up.

This is why I think it’s bold when someone places a curse or spell on random people, you could easily piss off a more advance occultist. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/13.gif)

okay I hope your right and it does wear of completely. I Just want to return the suffering and pain that it has caused me.
Anyway Im not really worried about it too much. Since it is not really that bad and has worn of alot already. But still its there in the background.

I dont have anything that belongs to her but I can visualize very well and I might make a poppet when doing some meditation. but I dont wanna put us together I wanna throw it away. what if I threw it in a river or something. coz the house is abit elaborate. I will make the poppet similar to her as much as possible. should I tie it up or burn it or something?

Is there any saint/loa that can break spells ? Even if she is good at magick I am older and I believe wiser and I dont mind to bleed to make this happen.

here's another one:

make a dolly and write her name on it and tape it to the bumper of your car and head out on the freeway

leave it there until it falls off, easy-peasy - gone is gone

I love this. It will fall out on its on. its like if you are trying to make it go away it is harder. its symbolic of forgetting about it and dropping off but maybe on the psychic level it will cut the link that should not exist naturally

now when I make said dolly should I concentrate on her intensely.
I plan on using an old shirt and cut to human figures and stuff it with paper.
I will right her name and put it inside and draw the eyes and mouth. will this be enough.
and I will do on the waning moon.
what if I just burn it though because I don't have a car so this idea wont work

I wonder if this obsession or whatever is because it was unrequited? DR did you consummate this relationship or is the one who got away? Sometimes when you didn't manage to get her naked you have a harder time cutting the cord than if you had knocked boots a few times. It just doesn't sound quite like a left over love spell.

Yes I didn't manage to have sex with her. it was very much unrequited. Hmmm this is food for thought. thank you

"love spells" never should have been renamed. they used to be called "love curses".

If this girl has in fact deliberately invaded your private free will, then you have been 'attacked' in my opinion. particularly if her intent seems only to toy with you.

The next time you think about how wonderful it would be to be with her, just remember that her knife may already dipped in the blood of your free will. That *should* disturb the heck out of you.

that is of course assuming you are correct that she did some sort of spell. Just because she practices magick, and the more she steps back the more you want to pursue her, does NOT necessarily mean that she performed a love curse. It could be that she simply pushes your buttons, ya know? And "unavailability" can actually be a deadly attractive trait, depending on your psychological makeup. But do you really want to be with someone who lacks the good taste to want to be with you? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wink.gif)

either way, she's a lose-lose proposition.

Yeah I think I may have kind of fantasized about her more than regular because she was practicing witchcraft and this makes her like 10 times more attractive to me. Its just because its the kind of thing I was drawn to since I was a teen and it was the first time I had met someone like that. she looked quite normal really.
I don't know I have met some hot goth chicks that practice witchcraft after her I have had no problem even if I didn't have sex when I left It was no problem. and forgot about it almost completely. but maybe the more you fantasize the more you can get overly attached and you can see them as more than they are.

But I am not overly attractive but I think she really did do a spell in the beginning of the classes but it wasn't that powerful actually so it might be deadly mixture of both.
anyway its not a really big deal. I like to carry the many lost loves within my heart kind of tragically poetic hahahaha

If you don't want to love her anymore just... Don't. You have total control over your thoughts and feelings. A "spell" can only affect you as much as you let it. Let the past be the past. That is, if it's what you really want, and it seems to be the case. In my opinion you are making this a lot more difficult than it needs to be. If you create resistance for yourself, you WILL have trouble moving on. I know how powerful love can be, but if you WANT to move on, just will it to be. No one can really do that for you. Perhaps it would be easier for you to move on if you take the magic out of this "love spell."

How does a love spell manifest in reality? The answer to this I'm not really sure of, but romance is ultimately sending out energy(love) to someone, and having that love reciprocated towards the person. We like people who like us. She was playing with you. She was using you. She doesn't love you. There is nothing to free yourself from save your own emotions which you are solely in control of. Just break all ties you have with her and let them exist in the past. All that is good for now is memories and experiences. You can't let bad events in the past affect you in the present. It's pretty stupid and immature to be honest, though we are ALL guilty of it. Sometimes it just takes someone to point it out for us to be aware we are doing it.


If you still love this girl and WANT to love her, why not pursue it? If she sees you still love her despite what she did to you and you are willing to stand by her still today, perhaps she will see you for the excellent lover you are and change. Perhaps. Perhaps not. You know better than I.

No I have moved state. and I don't really think I will ever see her again. and I don't really care. just stuck in my head longer than usual that's all. I was wondering if that was an effect of a spell. I don't really think about it at all these days.

your right I cant let the past effect the present. so I don't even other with it. a couple more years and I will forget everything hopefully.
Just a stupid thing really. I don't wanna carry on with it too much.

I'll leave it as that. I'm sure their are more important things we could be discussing
thanks everyone for you replies.

I just realized the tone of my reply was a little harsh. I know as well as anybody how strong love can be, and I should've better empathized with that. I just offered some advice I thought could help give you a friendly push to move on. I hope there are no hard feelings. I wish you the best (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

>> I'm sure their are more important things we could be discussing

actually its not a bad thing to talk about anything - for each post made there are, what, maybe 40 guest n00bs looking for answers to their own problems within it?

only when there are no posts at all, that's when there is a problem!

feel free to rattle on about just anything, and if it gets too crappy, the mods will flush!

i love talking about magical stuff - it makes my day - 90% of the people in my life won't hear it, and of that 10% most are on a path that is strange to me

i admit my views are whacked, but at least i have views!

*nodnod*

"what she said"
(that's getting to be habit forming esoterica)

I'd be careful allowing yourself to be bitter about it. don't get me wrong, i'm a gal who loves her revenge...but i dunno...tying her image to the back of your car is a little hasty (although extremely funny)...you don't even have any way of confirming she actually cast a spell on you.

you know, some of the SIMPLEST spells are the most POWERFUL. Sure, she clearly didn't have herself a love voodoo ritual in the middle of the classroom...but if there is enough momentary will and desire behind the spell, and YOU yourself were waiting to be swept off your feet by anything and anyone that crossed your path well then she simply took advantage of your weakness of heart and did what it was in her nature to do...to me she sounds like a cat who plays with her food...and well, my dear man...you were dinner.

REPLACE HER with a real cat. name the cat after her. There hehe. now you can never take her seriously again. (even better if she's allergic to cats lol). (just joking haha) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)

she sounds like a cat who plays with her food...and well, my dear man...you were dinner
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Great replies were given.
But I always have this thought when someone brings "someone cast a love spell on me" subject.
Some people (I don't mean you ) when they feel heartbroken or that they still have strong emotions to someone,think that they are under attack.I believe that one must investigate further,deeper.Sometimes,as humans,we have a crush on someone without any reason and when you think about it later you say "what the heck I was thinking about?She's stupid,not my type,whatever". It's an unconscious thing.
Don't label it as love "curse"(as Kath said) just yet.

Esoterica gave great suggestions.
You can also make the doll and burn it if you don't want something to represent you two together.Or get a stone,push everything you feel toward this girl in it as you sense the energy rising,throw it far with a shout.


In my opinion "WILL" it to be forgotten.

JMHO

esoterica!!!! i do the same thing with stones sometimes....thats awesome that we do the same thing. its a great way to release pent up frustrations towards someone! its also REALLY good for domination spells. just name the rock whoever the victim is and then play 'kick the rock' for a while. its utterly delicious (IMG:style_emoticons/default/biggrin.gif)

This post has been edited by valkyrie: Oct 15 2009, 11:38 PM