Sexual Attraction Options

(IMG:style_emoticons/default/egypt1.gif) Does anyone know how to become sexually attractive to the opposite sex with magic?

Social skills generally help.

Social skills generally help.

This is a magick forum right? so why don't you help by offering any information in regards to the question. He asked for magical solution. Stop being mundane!!!
Sorry Konte the only thing I would suggest is the law of attraction. Just imagine yourself as desirable to the opposite sex and you'll probably find your getting more attention from the ladies! Its not quite magic when you really understand how its working but neverless, give it a try.... its all in your mind, you create reality. You want the women, believe they want you first and they will come!!!

In the library forum Kinjo gave a link to a PDF i recently read an found quite helpful.

Seven steps to Charisma

It only contains a little bit on the magical side but i found it to be quite helpful.
I remember reading a book many years ago called 'Angel Tech: A Modern Shaman's Guide to Reality'
That's the only book i remember ever having a descent section on creating a 'charismatic' aura,
it is also a great read as it has a very unique perspective, one for he collection imo.

I've got most of the girlfriends/****** in my life with the help of magic, mainly due to my social inhibitions.
If what your after is sex/love then approaching rationally an directly might be a good option.
If so then their are loads of rituals etc.. but i would advise you not to ever target a specific individual and to be very sure of the intention you use, an if you are not summon help.
If like me you would rather work on quazi-magical social skills then read what you can an be ready to experiment.
I have come to believe that getting better at 'the game' is probably the best way forward, the chase an all the things you learn on the way is the fun bit,
Skipping the best bit is often an option but for a little bit more effort/bravery you could train yourself to be quite the catch.

Are you buying fish or buying fishing equipment?

well are you looking for love spells or just attraction spells? do you wear a specific scent or cologne that you could enchant? that might be the best way to go, +20 points if its the favorite smell of your love interest, anyway of finding out through the grapevine? if so, they won't stand a chance! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/wub.gif) just don't rub bacon all over yourself, stick to non-food smells please lol.

goddesses of love like aphrodite or freya would be MORE than willing to help you. A God of lust that works wonders is good ol' Pan the satyr. And I've heard Krishna is a good one too. good luck! -V

This is a magick forum right? so why don't you help by offering any information in regards to the question. He asked for magical solution. Stop being mundane!!!

The most mundane is often the most effective.

LBRP, and then reflecting upon whether this lack of attraction is your problem, for example, then determining, in such a state whether its worth the time or not.

I'd say that begging a god or goddess that isn't even powerful enough to make a manifestation on this plane of existence isn't worth your time. If you were capable of bending the will of your desire, you'd probably have done it already, so that's why I started with the basic notion of pursuing a just "are you into them, is (insert pronoun) into you thing.

Frankly, possesion, hexes, making tea, flying kites, all things that aren't completely solid, logical focii are all magic based.

Question, OP, would imposing your will through said desired person get you what you want? Because at the end of the day, once the construct is the only reason they're attracted to you unless you change.

I'd say that begging a god or goddess that isn't even powerful enough to make a manifestation on this plane of existence isn't worth your time.

Just because a God or Goddess doesn't appear to YOU the way you expect them to - anthropomorphised or as a burst of divine light or some such - doesn't mean that they don't manifest on this plane. Consider Gods and Goddesses as overarching creative forces instead of people in the aether and they are manifest all around you constantly.

That said, Kaboom is right - you're not going to gain anything real through this kind of magic. And there are a lot of ways it can go wrong. I would avoid this and instead focus on developing confidence and social skills. I know a lot of women - a lot - who consider a man's appearance to be secondary to confidence, sense of humor, intelligence, etc.

The other pertinent object of note is this: We discourage 'spell-begging' until you have been here for a while, 30 cumulative posts. Posts in the 'social' forums like the coffee shop, neophyte hall, etc., don't count, nor do short one-liners, etc. Look through the forums for a while, post where you have something to say or a question, and it's likely you'll find some information that will help whatever it is you want to accomplish - there is a wealth of information on this forum already, plus the library if you want to look around there.

peace

The art of seduction is magickal. Its power opens unto you when you know yourself and what you are capable of.

Firstly, magick works when you stack the odds in your favor. That's why all the visualization techniques, ritual props, and so on - it enhances the potency of your focus. So having good social skills is an important prelude to getting someone you want.

As discretion is important in magick, so is it important in seduction. Mystique enhances appeal and potency. Social skills can enhance mystique. Learn the art of conversation. More importantly, learn how to get people to go on about themselves. Watch their body language, learn how to use your own to your advantage, keep your eye open for visual cues. Unless a complete egotistical bore, your target will soon become very aware that they have revealed much of themselves, but know precious little about you. Don't go advertising it all, and don't be overt about letting information trickle rather than pour. Don't deceive, either. Your work will collapse like a house of cards.

Know that your natural scent is far more potent than any designer perfume. Wear essential oils (look up Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab online) if you must, but avoid the disgusting stenches commercial perfumeries concoct with alcohol and death. Consider forgoing underwear and wear scentless deodorant (crystal deodorant, when applied to clean skin, will block odor-causing bacteria). Also, I have not tried it, but the Satanic Bible suggests wiping your genital area with a clean cloth or handkerchief and using it as a pocket square (the hanky you wear in a suit breast pocket).

Confidence is UNDENIABLY magickal. A self-doubting practitioner is sure to fail. Learn either to use your ego to your advantage, or dispel it altogether in the aim of your work. LAShTAL. Conduct your work without lust of result. You should not care if the object of your affection responds to your attempts. This should not be taken to mean that you ought to repulse, or even risk repulsing, your target, of course.

Pay close attention to hygiene - purification of the body temple is never unappreciated by those who would worship there. Tidy facial hair (if any), clean clothes, etc. are important. Anyone who says this is not magickal may want to refer to the preparations required for certain Enochian procedures. Bathing is obviously a common prelude to spiritual work, symbolically or otherwise.

Remember that in order to DESERVE a catch, one must BE a catch. If you wish to maintain a love connection with another person, you must be interesting. Have experiences. Explore your rough edges. Find your grit, your uniqueness, the you that doesn't fit into the narrow confines of the socially acceptable programmed corporate shill.

If you take any basic ideas away from my response, let it be that sexual attraction - and seduction - are multidimensional, multifaceted, and arguably more non-physical than physical.
I've learned this and more from experience; I have had a great many monogamous, polyamorous, and casual relationships, eventually discovering that your reasons for engaging in any of those is much more important than your successes.

Disclaimer: I am short (5'7") and skinny (125-135 pounds), albeit broad-shouldered and otherwise well-shaped, but I have been blessed with excellent skin and bone structure, a very broad genetic history (17 nationalities - we mutts are healthy folk), a perpetually youthful look, and have been told I have an attractive face. So although the above are important, I cannot claim that my experience is free from good fortune. But personality, aura, and magnetism trump these effortlessly.

I wish you luck, but even moreso I wish you the ability to see your own value. Once you do, others will too.