Being and Staying Creative, Maintaining your state of mind Options

Hey guys, I need some feedback, advices and insights here to think out my my box (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

Well, I am currently single and looking for new preys (IMG:style_emoticons/default/5.gif) and to be truly effective it is important that I stay creative, meaning that I have to be cocky and funny at most of the time. Often I forgot about the funny part (most important) and end up being a jerk. Generally, I am the serious and quite type, also this is sometimes hard since being melancholic I'm allowed to have depression from time to time (IMG:style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif)

So, as simple as it sound, what would you advice, suggest me to try or improve on please?

Well Kinjo, if you come across as too clever, you might a girl off or she might be impressed.

I certainly think it would be wise to keep the less desirable aspects of your personality in the background to begin with.

If you are too creative and funny and you have to try too hard, what will happen when she finds out that this was just a way of winning her and really you are not like that for most of the time?

The best way forward is to do something creative together, like share a leisure activity of some kind ie: painting, rambling, mending an old boat or something and be your natural self so that someone loves you for who you are and you don't have to struggle to keep being creative and clever all of the time, boy, that sounds so stressful.

A lot of inital attraction is in how someone looks, I mean, you could be the funniest and most interesting guy in town, but if the girl doesn't fancy you, you will only become a very witty friend who is good to have a conversation with.