Being and Staying Creative, Maintaining your state of mind Options

Hey guys, I need some feedback, advices and insights here to think out my my box (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

Well, I am currently single and looking for new preys (IMG:style_emoticons/default/5.gif) and to be truly effective it is important that I stay creative, meaning that I have to be cocky and funny at most of the time. Often I forgot about the funny part (most important) and end up being a jerk. Generally, I am the serious and quite type, also this is sometimes hard since being melancholic I'm allowed to have depression from time to time (IMG:style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif)

So, as simple as it sound, what would you advice, suggest me to try or improve on please?

A lot of inital attraction is in how someone looks, I mean, you could be the funniest and most interesting guy in town, but if the girl doesn't fancy you, you will only become a very witty friend who is good to have a conversation with.

I'd have to say that in my experience the initial attraction is the personality that is beamed around you (aura? i dunno ;D)

The ugliest person could also be the most attractive due to the energyfield around them, anyways, that's just me, maybe other ppl ignore them and go for looks (but they dont, they just dont know it, admit it im right hehe ;P)