Servitor Communication, How do you communicate with your servitors? Options

Hi there! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
I’ve read tons of info on servitors and yet I haven’t found a guide that fills all the gaps… there’s always something lacking, either on how to create it, how to feed it, how to communicate with it… I have actually created a servitor myself (hadn’t plan it), but I was doing my psi work and got really concentrated creating a huge psi ball, so I decided to give it some purpose… I gave it a name, life, a purpose, and an expiration date… There’s this girl who is obviously interested in me (romantically) but for some reason she seems to hesitate, I think she doesn’t find the courage to let me know how she feels… (I’ve actually talked to her about this, and even though I was really straight forward, she still hesitated, and left me with no answer at all (IMG:style_emoticons/default/censored.gif) )… So the purpose of my servitor is to help this girl find the courage to be honest about the way she feels (if she really feels that way)… So far I can’t say I have seen great results, it has been really useful to get information… I work with a friend who can get a deep trance easily, so she’s been chatting with my servitor and has gotten really coherent answers, he has even given her info that she didn’t have but I did (verification)… I can’t seem to chat with him so easily, I usually fall asleep, enter a deep trance and can’t recall anything at all, or confuse my thoughts with his messages… The servitor has said that the problem is that I’m afraid of disappointment (finding out that the girl is not interested, although that’s not what he seems to believe) so I unconsciously block his messages.
To solve this I’ve thought about practicing the preparation exercises konstaninos gives in summoning spirits… maybe communicating through a black mirror? I know I should just relax and try to let the messages flow, but I can’t seem to do it (IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif)…
So my question is… and I haven’t been able to find the answer… how do you communicate with your servitors… and how much can you trust the given information?
Thanx a lot!
By the way, sorry for my awful English and thanx for your patience, it’s not my native language! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blush2.gif)

Well, what I'm about to suggest, in my humle opinion, is cheesy, but being a servitor is a part of you, why not just try automatic writing? 'Invoke' it, ask aloud whatever you need, then let the pen flow on the paper. For any other deity I'd be sketchy about automatic writing, but for a servitor it seems fine. Besides, evocation takes alot of preperation, and you already know that the entity looks like, and what it's task is, and it's already working under you, so there's really no point going through a lenghty evocation, when you can do something simpler. Goodluck with your servitor! Be sure to post back on how things went.

.::Sempre Bene::..::Chris::.
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