Ethical Spell Casting, Is there any... really? Options

Is there such thing as ethical spell casting?
I repeatedly read people wrote about how they do not want to mess with other people's free will (ie. love spell) and I found this to be in conflict with their (our) daily behaviours. We persuade, seduce, entice people daily to bend and fulfill our desires by psychological means, consciously or unconsciously. If seen from this particular perspective, I honestly see nothing wrong with bend over/coercive spell for example (IMG:style_emoticons/default/8.gif)

Hmm, interesting theory. But I think it's more complicated than that. Seeing as casting a spell to get someone to fall madly in love with you using magick versus seducing them or manipulating them. In the latter, you aren't really in conflict with thier free will, as they could say no at anytime. They just don't choose to do so. It's like a used car salesman trying to sell you a lemon, he tries to make you believe you "need" the car and you won't survive without it. A person who could see the wool being pulled over thier eyes would say "F@CK YOU!!" , whilst other people might just buy the car because the guy is so pushy and coercing them to do so. The salesman isn't taking away your free will he's just trying to con you out of your cash. It's all about the strength of will in that one. The former is where you haven't even the slightest clue someone is performing magick against you and you just end up doing something you wouldn't normally do. I guess it boils down to having the choice to say no.