Ethical Spell Casting, Is there any... really? Options

Is there such thing as ethical spell casting?
I repeatedly read people wrote about how they do not want to mess with other people's free will (ie. love spell) and I found this to be in conflict with their (our) daily behaviours. We persuade, seduce, entice people daily to bend and fulfill our desires by psychological means, consciously or unconsciously. If seen from this particular perspective, I honestly see nothing wrong with bend over/coercive spell for example (IMG:style_emoticons/default/8.gif)

Yes Angalor, the person can say no and not do the coercive spell. It really depends on reasons and considerations such as personal values and beliefs + possible consequences in comparison to how much does the person wants to get what he/she wants + degrees of risk management they're willing to commit themself to (IMG:style_emoticons/default/13.gif) Nevertheless, people will still cheat lie manipulate and even commit murder if their desire is strong enough. However, I havent seen a good rates of success with these coercive spells. IMO, they tend to only work with depresive, and low self esteem targets (people with weak shields).