Ethical Spell Casting, Is there any... really? Options

Is there such thing as ethical spell casting?
I repeatedly read people wrote about how they do not want to mess with other people's free will (ie. love spell) and I found this to be in conflict with their (our) daily behaviours. We persuade, seduce, entice people daily to bend and fulfill our desires by psychological means, consciously or unconsciously. If seen from this particular perspective, I honestly see nothing wrong with bend over/coercive spell for example (IMG:style_emoticons/default/8.gif)

I came up with a example, that I believe is relivant to this & my belief

So take Criss Angel for example, and his mind powers(to get into the mind of others) well say he decides to use it to bend "Martia" to his will, either to get her to jump off a bridge , run in traffic , be his friend , talk to him , kiss him so on so fourth, something she generally wouldn't do. So he gets in her mind to get her to bend to his will, and she does. It still effects her free will, to an extent, it manipulates her.

Now for instance, say Candy looooves Adam, Candy decides to bend her to his will with a love spell, Adam has never even spoke to Candy let alone shown a love intrest, but with the spell, she just manipulated him into taking up a love intrest. She just bent him to her will.

So thats what I meant in my previous post, (IMG:style_emoticons/default/angel.gif)

I feel ittsy bitsy smart, just a little. But thats how I percive it.

I believe in love spells, I think they are fine, I believe in bending someone to your will, as long as you don't make it habitual/not on a daily basis. I think that before you cast a love spell you ought to identify the feeling of love, and ensure it's not a crush or a puppy love feeling, & when making someone agree to you make sure it's because it's something you can't live without.