Need More Chesed. Options

I just read DANTE'S EQUATION by Jane Jensen and it really relit my interest in Kaballah. Its fiction but pulls from science, math and the kaballah to give a new twist on "ascension" that I have pursued for years.

So anyway I need more Chesed to balance my excessive Gevurah. Any ideas that dont include rituals?

I have the same problem. Try concentrating activities towards areas of life which are anabolic, not catabolic. Geburah is the destroyer, and Chesed is the loving king which hands down laws for the people.

Consider this, for example. Have you ever read philosophy and criticized it? That's a Geburah act - it breaks down the philosophy. Try taking what you've learned and integrating it into your own philosophy, building up your own approach.

Foster deeper relationships with people, and avoid growing overly angry when something occurs that you dislike.

Try giving advice to those you would normally criticize. See if you can help them with their faults rather than just cast them away.

When you're sitting around town, envision how the town will change over the years. Figure out where it will be headed and how you could effect its growth.