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denk75
post Nov 13 2006, 11:46 AM
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I wasn't sure if this was the right forum to post this in so if it gets moved, so be it!

My 11 year old daughter has expressed an interest in learning Tarot. I have told her that I would teach her when se was older. She askes me all the time and I have been putting her off for at least 6 months or more. My question is how young do you thing is too young to introduce a child to Magick? I am really interested in how other people view this. Thanks in advance.
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As an adult, and a parent of "older" kids (20, 23) . . . I think its a valuable question

Certainly it depends on the children, individually. As well as thier living situation and relationships with parents, siblings, friends (ie, thier general social stability) should certainly be considered.
But nearly as important (and perhaps more so) is whether the child is being guilded and instructed by a stable adult (and all the things that go into "stability") that has a background that warrents them as "teachers" ; or if they are simply "blindly" exploring occultism on their own . . . but with parental "consent".
(I assume that being taught "magick" that is destructive or by a parent that is unstable . . isn't even needing to be considered)

Assuming only the best case (stable parent with a long term, grounded, occult background attentitvely guilding an otherwise stable child) . . . I'd think that quite a bit of basic theory and supportive spirituality could be introduced throughout thier young life. Perhaps some developmental practices (divinition, patitioning, ancestrial-practices, mind/body control and strengthening) could be useful and productive just prior to puberty and leading inthrough adolescense. All of that assuming they WANT to participate and progress in the "practice"

After adolescence (proper), I'd leave them to explore and develop . . . of course, always positioning yourself very conspicuosly as an available guide/resource for them as they need (and also watching thier progress and behavior for "signs" of trouble or personal abuses).

though . . . just my opinion . . . I Know Nothing (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

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post Nov 13 2006, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE(palindroem @ Nov 13 2006, 02:48 PM) *
As an adult, and a parent of "older" kids (20, 23) . . . I think its a valuable question

Certainly it depends on the children, individually. As well as thier living situation and relationships with parents, siblings, friends (ie, thier general social stability) should certainly be considered.
But nearly as important (and perhaps more so) is whether the child is being guilded and instructed by a stable adult (and all the things that go into "stability") that has a background that warrents them as "teachers" ; or if they are simply "blindly" exploring occultism on their own . . . but with parental "consent".
(I assume that being taught "magick" that is destructive or by a parent that is unstable . . isn't even needing to be considered)

Assuming only the best case (stable parent with a long term, grounded, occult background attentitvely guilding an otherwise stable child) . . . I'd think that quite a bit of basic theory and supportive spirituality could be introduced throughout thier young life. Perhaps some developmental practices (divinition, patitioning, ancestrial-practices, mind/body control and strengthening) could be useful and productive just prior to puberty and leading inthrough adolescense. All of that assuming they WANT to participate and progress in the "practice"

After adolescence (proper), I'd leave them to explore and develop . . . of course, always positioning yourself very conspicuosly as an available guide/resource for them as they need (and also watching thier progress and behavior for "signs" of trouble or personal abuses).

though . . . just my opinion . . . I Know Nothing (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)
That's A very good point of view i'd say...


QUOTE(Vagrant Dreamer @ Nov 13 2006, 03:36 PM) *
I don't have kids, but when I was about that age I took an interest in the occult and my parents told me to put it away and not think of it. So of course, I did my own reasearch in private, when they weren't watching. It's good to learn about some things the hard way, though...

peace

Same for me...My brother is a Xian priest by the way...So If he knews... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/Symbols_1911.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/evilB.gif)


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denk75   Kids And Magic   Nov 13 2006, 11:46 AM
Vagrant Dreamer   I don't have kids, but when I was about that a...   Nov 13 2006, 02:36 PM
Taylor   I don't have kids, but when I was about that a...   Nov 23 2006, 01:03 AM
netzgewebe   I am 13 years old and I practice on my own. My par...   Nov 23 2006, 10:49 AM
The Sorceress   I practice on my own. My parents don't want me...   Apr 25 2007, 10:21 AM
nox   I think I was five the first time I remember grann...   Apr 27 2007, 02:45 PM
amongthehidden   :search: I don't have kids, but when I was ab...   Jul 13 2009, 08:46 AM
Prudence   Well,I am 12 years old and I do magick so... :baby...   Nov 13 2006, 02:36 PM
bym   Greetings! IMHO, of course, they don't han...   Nov 13 2006, 05:28 PM
Acid09   :goodposting: I was about 11-12 when subjects li...   Nov 14 2006, 03:50 PM
Abijah   Well, i personally think that the philosophy that ...   Nov 14 2006, 04:45 PM
Pilgrim Child   It depends by what you mean, as there is a whole l...   Nov 15 2006, 04:17 AM
Goibniu   Emotional maturity is one aspect, but with my teen...   Nov 23 2006, 03:01 PM
Thanos   I wasn't sure if this was the right forum to p...   Nov 24 2006, 11:35 AM
DeathFetish   I think it would also depend on what you're ...   Nov 24 2006, 12:16 PM
diana   pilgrim child you are genius!! i don't...   Nov 26 2006, 08:05 PM
extinctionspasm   When i was a child my mother practiced magick regu...   Nov 27 2006, 03:12 AM
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