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post Nov 13 2006, 11:46 AM
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I wasn't sure if this was the right forum to post this in so if it gets moved, so be it!

My 11 year old daughter has expressed an interest in learning Tarot. I have told her that I would teach her when se was older. She askes me all the time and I have been putting her off for at least 6 months or more. My question is how young do you thing is too young to introduce a child to Magick? I am really interested in how other people view this. Thanks in advance.
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post Dec 6 2006, 01:52 PM
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hi ... i'm a mom of a 6 year old (well almost 7 years old now, 20 days away!)

we used to home school so i taught her what i wanted ... we used the philosophy of education from Sudbury Valley School in Massachusettes ... they had two principles ... (1) freedom, and (2) personal responsibility. that children should be free to exerience and learn whatever they wanted whenever they wanted, but that everthing must be done responsibly. i have taught my daughter esoteric truths and magic since she was born. she takes it in stride and context. she did her first magic spell at the beginning of the school year when she decided she wanted to go to a "real" school. i bought her her first magic wand last summer, she was told how to 'pack' it with her blood (of course, she wanted to wait until she hurt herself rather than prick herself with a needle ... that's responsible!), i added a herkimer diamond and told her why ... she didn't really care, but agreed because it looked pretty. her first spell with it was over her school application when we were told it was impossible as we applied the week before school started!

she doesn't care for the tarot, but has been learning the medicine cards because she loves animals and understands the simplicity of those cards. she understands a lot about tarot because she hears me talk about it, she asks questions about astrology all the time, and now that she is in school and learning "math", we talk about numbers quite a bit too.

i guess my nutshell is, do it naturally at a level they are ready to assume responsibility for; teach them what they ask about or what you are excited about sharing with them ... the younger they are and the more "part of their life" their seemingly 'strange' beliefs or philosophies or however you describe it, the less unsure and insecure they will be about them, and hence, the less it will be an issue for osterization, teasing or prejudice. the more integrated it is in their life, the more it will be natural not just to them but to their environment. when i describe what i do or what i believe, people do not look at me strange or funny, they ask me questions. because what i do, know, learn and study is part of me naturally and not forced or done as a reaction to something else, people do not respond to me with defense mechanisms that usually show up as discrimination and separation.

embrace anything your child wants to know about as being a good thing in context to their present reality ... if you let them lead their own way on what they want to learn, they won't be exposed to something too early or too mature for them ... its like the sex question ... when they just mention it, our adult minds have a lot more information and we get worried they are talking about sex at our level ... and if you lead the discussion, you may give them information they are not ready for, but if they lead the discussion, you may find out they are just talking about holding hands with the cute boy in science class.


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denk75   Kids And Magic   Nov 13 2006, 11:46 AM
palindroem   As an adult, and a parent of "older" kid...   Nov 13 2006, 01:48 PM
Vagrant Dreamer   I don't have kids, but when I was about that a...   Nov 13 2006, 02:36 PM
Taylor   I don't have kids, but when I was about that a...   Nov 23 2006, 01:03 AM
netzgewebe   I am 13 years old and I practice on my own. My par...   Nov 23 2006, 10:49 AM
The Sorceress   I practice on my own. My parents don't want me...   Apr 25 2007, 10:21 AM
nox   I think I was five the first time I remember grann...   Apr 27 2007, 02:45 PM
amongthehidden   :search: I don't have kids, but when I was ab...   Jul 13 2009, 08:46 AM
Prudence   As an adult, and a parent of "older" kid...   Nov 13 2006, 02:51 PM
Prudence   Well,I am 12 years old and I do magick so... :baby...   Nov 13 2006, 02:36 PM
bym   Greetings! IMHO, of course, they don't han...   Nov 13 2006, 05:28 PM
Acid09   :goodposting: I was about 11-12 when subjects li...   Nov 14 2006, 03:50 PM
Abijah   Well, i personally think that the philosophy that ...   Nov 14 2006, 04:45 PM
Pilgrim Child   It depends by what you mean, as there is a whole l...   Nov 15 2006, 04:17 AM
Goibniu   Emotional maturity is one aspect, but with my teen...   Nov 23 2006, 03:01 PM
Thanos   I wasn't sure if this was the right forum to p...   Nov 24 2006, 11:35 AM
DeathFetish   I think it would also depend on what you're ...   Nov 24 2006, 12:16 PM
diana   pilgrim child you are genius!! i don't...   Nov 26 2006, 08:05 PM
extinctionspasm   When i was a child my mother practiced magick regu...   Nov 27 2006, 03:12 AM
Blood Thirst   I am twelve I have mentors that help me learn prop...   Dec 11 2006, 05:07 PM
The White Chaos   **tries to do this without extricating myself** M...   Jan 25 2007, 01:21 PM
Bloodfire   [font=Times New Roman]I'm 14 and have Christia...   Aug 13 2007, 05:22 PM
Slayden   I grew up in a fear-gripped household when it came...   Aug 15 2007, 12:38 AM
Tomber   You could familiarize her with some of the terms a...   Jul 26 2009, 03:46 PM
Ankhhape   I wasn't sure if this was the right forum to ...   Jul 26 2009, 03:53 PM
Lucifer   When I was 14, I started feeling a want/inclinatio...   Jul 30 2009, 06:22 AM
Azrael lee   I think no age is too young kids have minds that o...   Aug 17 2009, 01:21 AM
Lord_Vahn   I suppose really all you can do, is go by what you...   Aug 21 2009, 09:09 AM

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