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...sometimes for the Good of someone, one need to be harsh especially when it can be for the good of someone much younger...
Consider this: She's doing this for her own good, and your arguing to the contrary harms the psyche of someone, especially younger, who has been told their entire life that it is simply
wrong to be who they are.
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You have been stuffing yourself for so many years for that but you even aint show any valid stuff to support your claim.. those things you related are small things that might come as puberty disorders that happen dude....
Again with the notion of disorders. You dismiss validity in favor of assuming you are correct, thereby anything she could have said would be lost on you, because it would be "invalid".
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Well seriously speaking, even if you reach 18, i wont advise you to have a decision on whether to change gender... BE CAUTIOUS THAT MOST OF YOUR BODY WILL BE MALE and its only the hormones that when taken will give you the femine touch ;-) the parts you would remove and other add does have certain problem areas that you need to be aware of.... there might be serious complications dude..
Finally, you make sense. These are all true complications and everything contained in the above quote is true. There are risks, as with anything, but trust me when I say that if it would complete me and I would be a better man because of it, I would jump off of a mountain in a heartbeat. I would tear out my eye, or even, yes, remove my penis.
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You have a healthy body, do dont try ruin it for childhood fancies...Also i really think even at 18 you wont be able to have a truthful decision.. you have put the gender change stuff in your mind for so long that i guess one year wont be enough to give you an unbiased decision.
Consider the following: Tortured, miserable, and healthy? Or complicated, happy, and absolutely at home? I would pick the latter, thank you very much. And I have to remark that no decision is unbiased, because they're all based on our opinions.
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Try havin a gurlfrnd and tell her to make you realise how good you can be being a male ;-) you getting my point a bit...
I have to ask why this matters. Perhaps, you haven't gotten the point that, she wants to be female? Might not be attracted to women?
This post has been edited by Isaiah: Jan 2 2007, 10:10 PM