About This Girl.., I'm also new (1st post) Options

I have a friend who I always go to his house, and a bunch of other people go there, and we hang out and get high, and just do random stuff. Recently his 19 year old sister moved in with him, and she hung out in his room for a while, and me and her became pretty good friends, but recently, she hasnt been hanging out, and im really starting to miss hanging out with her, in fact, i think im in love with her. she always locks herself in her room, and i cant seem to get to really talk to her, because she always seems depressed. but i have pretty strong feelings for her.

I dont know, but its really frusterating, i want to talk to her and become closer with her, but its kind of hard when you cant interact with her, you know what i mean? do any of you have any tips or suggestions for me? it would be very appreciated.

This post has been edited by TheToology: Feb 7 2007, 02:10 AM

well I mean its kind of hard to talk to her if she sits in her room with the door closed, i have knocked on her door asking if she wanted to get high with me (since she has gotten me high plenty of times before) but she didnt want to.


Edit-- Well my question really is, is there any method i could use to let her know (subconciously or conciously) that I am interested in her, or at least let her acknowledge me a little more? i dont want to do any love spells or any of the such, because i personally dont really think its right to do that to someone.

OK, I didnt want to let out this much info, but if i want help i guess this is what im going to have to do.. I never said she didnt like me, in fact, one night when she was drunk, the light went out for about 5 seconds and she started nudging my hand (the way girls let you know they want you to hold their hand) and the lights came back on. and later on she fell asleep with her head on my shoulder, but i didnt know what to think because i thought she had a boyfriend... I'm SO confused.

This post has been edited by TheToology: Feb 7 2007, 02:43 AM

Greetings'TheToology',

My advice if you like her is do not tell her that you like her. Just be nice to her and be her friend. Women seem to be more interested in guys when guys are not interested in them for some reason.

Don't say anything. When the time is right just kiss her. Never discuss your feelings.

Good luck!