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I am trying to Identify a certain deity/entity/group/astral culture/pantheon (choose any/all) that fits the description of the following abstract elements. Be careful, it's somewhat jumbled, because I know -what- I am looking for, but don't know -how-, -who-, or -where-!

Is as follows:

-Dark, but benevolent and good, sorta the same feel one gets from a crimson twilight on halloween, in a victorian neighborhood, with the smell of burning wood from various fireplaces surround you. A faint smell of vanilla fills your nostrils. (this is the most blatant and accurate description I could express)
-A "Gentle Shade" energy, if you will.
-Feminine aspect of such is best characterized by Gothic Lolitas, and Male aspect best characterized as "Cloak and Dagger poet."
-Very gentle.
-Not very much into the "tough love," and sarcasm/smartassness is NOT a tenet.
-Stands more for more of a developmental nurturing sanctuary and safe-haven rather than for hard-knock education.
-A gentle grace and beauty.
-If there was an element/flavor/type to this energy which is used, I would say either "Twilight" or "Cosmic," perhaps both.

Any Ideas where to start looking for what I seek? Is it a person? Is it a place? Is it an object? A God(dess)? Perhaps a time? Is it the unknown itself (now thats just TOO abstract and in the clouds!)?

(ALTERNATE) Or, could it be that such a combination of characteristics has never been discovered, and that I need to start an astral domain of my own where this is a reality?

From your description it has the ring to it of being one of the Dead instead of an elemental.

"I don't think so, Tim."
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if it exuded a warm feeling it's probably a Trickster that was screwing with you

-Not very much into the "tough love," and sarcasm/smartassness is NOT a tenet.

And I say that because one time, I ran into something like a Necromonger (alluding to Chronicles of Riddick) Maiden of some sort on the dreamscape, with the intent of courting. She damn near scared me out of my body!! But no, this energy is different. Not dead, but dark. Not Dark -evil-, but Dark -gentle shade-.

Possibly, but this is something that I have been seeking after for quite a while. It is just recently that I have been able to pin down "what it's about".

Also, for further references;

If "it" had a smell; Burning Oak and Vanilla
If "it" had a setting; a Victorian Neighborhood
If "it" had music; any arpeggiative melody (Yes, includes Yngwie Malmsteen!), Power metal, Fantasy metal, EBM, and Trance

A -touch- has not yet been associated with this feeling.

Any further help?