Help Identify Desription!, What entity/group best fits description? Options

I am trying to Identify a certain deity/entity/group/astral culture/pantheon (choose any/all) that fits the description of the following abstract elements. Be careful, it's somewhat jumbled, because I know -what- I am looking for, but don't know -how-, -who-, or -where-!

Is as follows:

-Dark, but benevolent and good, sorta the same feel one gets from a crimson twilight on halloween, in a victorian neighborhood, with the smell of burning wood from various fireplaces surround you. A faint smell of vanilla fills your nostrils. (this is the most blatant and accurate description I could express)
-A "Gentle Shade" energy, if you will.
-Feminine aspect of such is best characterized by Gothic Lolitas, and Male aspect best characterized as "Cloak and Dagger poet."
-Very gentle.
-Not very much into the "tough love," and sarcasm/smartassness is NOT a tenet.
-Stands more for more of a developmental nurturing sanctuary and safe-haven rather than for hard-knock education.
-A gentle grace and beauty.
-If there was an element/flavor/type to this energy which is used, I would say either "Twilight" or "Cosmic," perhaps both.

Any Ideas where to start looking for what I seek? Is it a person? Is it a place? Is it an object? A God(dess)? Perhaps a time? Is it the unknown itself (now thats just TOO abstract and in the clouds!)?

(ALTERNATE) Or, could it be that such a combination of characteristics has never been discovered, and that I need to start an astral domain of my own where this is a reality?

sounds like a jinn to me! (sounds of maniacal laughter receeding down an astral hallway)

seriously,

i'd suggest your suggestion of creating an astral domain embodying the essences of 'it'

the burnt oak could well be real charcoal, the vanilla smell, incense

see how it responds to the concept of cemetary or graveyard or lily flowers or camphor

and see how it responds to the concept of flight, and of really bright light, too

try to get an associative metal - like a victorian wrought-iron gate, but made of something else - what would it be?

i'm thinking lunar, but possibly beyond that, maybe like venus, saturn or even uranus

remember, mercury is in retrograde until march, so don't fully trust delicate communications

e.