A Very Nasty Curse?..... Help.... Options

Dear forum members,

I know next to nothing about Magick.. so hopefully I'm at the right place, and posting my question at the right forum...

Ever since I've been a kid, bad things used to happen to me. But I always thought this is just a series of coincidences. About 7 years ago it got much worse, practically everything I got involved with went bad - mostly things out of my control. It was really frustrating knowing I have bad luck, and the fact that other people started commenting about it as well (friends, coworkers, doctors) was almost more than I could take.. I've heard so many times: "..you really have bad luck, do you know that?".

I've been told that it's possible someone put a curse on me, ages ago. I didn't know what to think about this, so I just carried on, hoping my luck will change one day.

[hey, I just got an email from my boss insulting me. See what I mean...(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) OK, I'll continue]

However, about 1 year ago it got much, much worse. Nowadays I just feel extremely unmotivated about things, because everything I get involved with, goes either bad or extremely bad. I know my attitude doesn't help, but it's not just that. I'm just so fed up with this nightmare. I even thought of ending my life.. yes, some things are THAT bad.

I don't know what I did to deserve this......

So.. I wanted to ask for advice.. what can I do??? HELP!!!...

Naturally, I looked online for advice, and of course, found places that promised help. But I have a strong feeling everything I found would be one of those places that would take thousands of $$$ and nothing would change.

And then I thought of coming to this forum.....

Please - any advice would be greatly appreciated,

Yours truly,

Sad S.

This post has been edited by Sad Soul: Jan 3 2007, 06:27 PM

Sad Soul,
It is my belief that if you believe you are cursed, then, in a sense, you are cursing yourself. I work in an industry where luck is a huge factor in success. I have come to believe that certain people are truly blessed. I see it each day, year in and year out... the same persons get lucky, again and again. No matter what they do, they seem to always land on their feet. The one thing those people have in common is a positive outlook on life. They don't just believe they will succeed, they know they will. Now, if one believes in astrology, then certain aspects are ordained at the time of birth. That doesn't mean a person will be lucky or unlucky all of their lives... it just means that each of us has a particular path that we must follow in order to achieve success. Think of water in a stream... it always seeks the easiest course to find it's level. It flows around obstacles and not over them (where possible). But each stream is different, even though they are all on the path to the same level.

If you are having trouble obtaining success on your current path, then seek another. You will eventually find the easiest way around your obstacles. If you convince yourself that you are cursed, then you will be cursed. You have to forget the past and look at each day as a new start, a new beginning, a new chance to succeed. Eventually, you will find the path that is right for you. Just have faith. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)