A Very Nasty Curse?..... Help.... Options

Dear forum members,

I know next to nothing about Magick.. so hopefully I'm at the right place, and posting my question at the right forum...

Ever since I've been a kid, bad things used to happen to me. But I always thought this is just a series of coincidences. About 7 years ago it got much worse, practically everything I got involved with went bad - mostly things out of my control. It was really frustrating knowing I have bad luck, and the fact that other people started commenting about it as well (friends, coworkers, doctors) was almost more than I could take.. I've heard so many times: "..you really have bad luck, do you know that?".

I've been told that it's possible someone put a curse on me, ages ago. I didn't know what to think about this, so I just carried on, hoping my luck will change one day.

[hey, I just got an email from my boss insulting me. See what I mean...(IMG:style_emoticons/default/sad.gif) OK, I'll continue]

However, about 1 year ago it got much, much worse. Nowadays I just feel extremely unmotivated about things, because everything I get involved with, goes either bad or extremely bad. I know my attitude doesn't help, but it's not just that. I'm just so fed up with this nightmare. I even thought of ending my life.. yes, some things are THAT bad.

I don't know what I did to deserve this......

So.. I wanted to ask for advice.. what can I do??? HELP!!!...

Naturally, I looked online for advice, and of course, found places that promised help. But I have a strong feeling everything I found would be one of those places that would take thousands of $$$ and nothing would change.

And then I thought of coming to this forum.....

Please - any advice would be greatly appreciated,

Yours truly,

Sad S.

This post has been edited by Sad Soul: Jan 3 2007, 06:27 PM

I just read through your post, and it definately sounds like you could use some help.
the majority of curses rely on our belief in them in order to work. In Magic, the effect you get is the end result you have the most faith in. For example, If I have more faith in failure than success, then I will fail. In other words, the belief that we are cursed often causes the curse itself. The faith in a curse can build for a long time, and this makes it difficult to remove.
I would certainly be willing to do what I can to remove any possible hexes or curses apon you, but you would still have to have faith in that for it to truly be successful. This is the main problem with having another person remove a curse. In the end, it still comes down to your own faith.

This post has been edited by Arkayne Magii: Jan 17 2007, 11:03 PM

I just read through your post, and it definately sounds like you could use some help.
the majority of curses rely on our belief in them in order to work. In Magic, the effect you get is the end result you have the most faith in. For example, If I have more faith in failure than success, then I will fail. In other words, the belief that we are cursed often causes the curse itself. The faith in a curse can build for a long time, and this makes it difficult to remove.
I would certainly be willing to do what I can to remove any possible hexes or curses apon you, but you would still have to have faith in that for it to truly be successful. This is the main problem with having another person remove a curse. In the end, it still comes down to your own faith.

Listen to this guy! This is the voice of wisdom on the subject.

Lets look at this hypothetically.

Lets say that everyone on this forum works together to put a curse on my cat. Now my cat believes that her power is so great that no one can curse her. My cat believes that because she was named after the Goddess Isis she is impervious to all magick. If the cats faith is stronger than the combined will of everyone on this forum my cat will not suffer any adverse effects.

<Note I am using my cat as an example just to be a retard.>

Now you think you are cursed. You doubt that anything will rectify the situation. Basically you are cursing yourself. I do not mean to be a dork hole but I do not have much sympathy for this type of mind state.

Fight fire with fire.

Peace!

Listen to this guy! This is the voice of wisdom on the subject.

Lets look at this hypothetically.

Lets say that everyone on this forum works together to put a curse on my cat. Now my cat believes that her power is so great that no one can curse her. My cat believes that because she was named after the Goddess Isis she is impervious to all magick. If the cats faith is stronger than the combined will of everyone on this forum my cat will not suffer any adverse effects.

<Note I am using my cat as an example just to be a retard.>

Now you think you are cursed. You doubt that anything will rectify the situation. Basically you are cursing yourself. I do not mean to be a dork hole but I do not have much sympathy for this type of mind state.

Fight fire with fire.

Peace!

You're not a dork hole (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) I understand and agree with what you say. But it is VERY difficult to change one's beliefs... purely on a matter of faith.

I will really try, I will.

This post has been edited by Sad Soul: Mar 11 2007, 05:13 PM

Greeting son.i understand what you are going through.there is quite abit of things to be done.firstly will have to have a through look at your astrological charts to see if what you are going through is karmic or not.There are ways to cure karmic imabalances through ritualistic magick.after that we can go on to whether its really a hex or maybe a mental block of sort(both are equally as bad).both which can be undone by charmed lemon grass oil or blessed tumeric powder.then a lucky charm,amulet or talisman would be in order to complete it.

of course like edunpanna and some of the rest said,all that would not be needed with an extremely strong willpower and strong mind,but i sense for you it is not the case as you do not have those.i believe for all proper magick we need to correct all aspects of the person in question.going through your birth chart would silence your thoughts from wondering about karmic imbalances and put you in a proper mental capacity,the magick ritual of uncrossing would put into balance your astral(spiritual) self,the bath by blessed tumeric powder and/or charmed lemon grass would cleanse your physical self and a proper talisman or amulet that you will wear will reinforce the proper state of mind and spirit and as you feel it on you physically you will reinforce it physically too.You can ask me if you have any other questions,and there are also many here more than capable of answering our questions.God bless.

Hi Sad Soul,
Well I was searching the internet researching some work I'm currently doing for someone and I came across your query on this forum. I felt I must post, because until recently I experienced 'crossing by-proxy', and what I have to say might shed some light on things for you at least.

My ex-partner was very ill-fated and when I met him he was covered in huge flea bites (despite having tried to treat the offending cat for quite some time apparently). He also had an extremely bad chest infection that he suspected at the time may have been whooping cough or similar, and he was very thin. Within six months of knowing him, bad luck began to affect me too. Out of the blue a lovely man at work began to bully me horribly, and that led to a string of events that led to me losing my good job, my home and ultimately my self-esteem, confidence and outgoing approach to life. I was baffled by the chain of events and the only way I can describe the situation, looking back, is that life felt like wading through treacle, nothing worked out, new friendships failed suddenly and crime increased to ridiculous levels in the local vicinity. Prior to meeting him I had a happy life, earned good money and all that seemed to have been missing was a lovely partner to share life with.

The relationship limped along and despite all my efforts, inexplicably I could not gain work in my field. This was unusual for me and I went to great lengths without sucess to gain meaningful employment. After a time my partner was wrongly accused of fraud and lost his job, he was run over by a lorry, his good friend was killed and he was dogged by dental problems. I felt strongly through the relationship that the power of this man's mind was manifesting these negative situations, even to the point of expecting them at every turn. The effect on me was immense, almost curselike in manifestation, but of course without conscious intent on the part of me ex - at least I hope not!

It is only since I ended the relationship that things have started to become clear in my mind about how a person, by association, might become affected by 'bad-luck by proxy', paticularly in a close relationship. Since the split everything went back to normal for me; I started dating and eventually found a wonderful, positive man...I applied for a job in my field and got it...I got onto a university course that I had been trying for the full length of my relationship with ex-partner to get onto without previous sucess. This all happened within just a few months of the split.

I suppose what I am saying is that the power of thought can become reality, both for yourself and those around you too, and if you are that powerful in manifesting the negatives in your life, be it for yourself or for others, then you can be equally as powerful in manifesting the positives.

In healing we say that your thoughts make your reality, and there are many ways to change and alter those thoughts so that every step in your life becomes a purposeful step towards your dreams and personal happiness....and not a breathless attempt to escape the next expected disaster. There are some wonderful affirmations and self-esteem building excercises online, particularly some athttp://www.more-selfesteem.com/affirmations.htm might be useful.

When dissappointments in life come along, take them as part and parcel of life, deal with them directly and assertively and then continue forward towards your dreams. Everything you do is then aimed at your personal happiness.

Make it happen Sad Soul and happiness can and will be yours.