What came first the egg or the chicken?
You cant really know, all you can do is make your choices the best you can as they are presented to you. If it was destiny, then whichever choice you make will lead you to the same result and the other choices are mere illusions that make us believe we could do something about the result, and God would be laughing and pointing (at some degree i guess those illusions would make us bring out the noble or darker aspects of human kind, if you think about it, and that would be our only real choice, good way to get to the result or bad way to get there, but at the end you get to the same place). If there is no destiny then you are the person your choices dictated you to be. You are never really gonna know. Its just a perspective of how you view life, like the half empty or half full glass.
Thats what i believe anyhow. (IMG:
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