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Well I hope you're more careful from now on.
Try praying (and lighting candles, and giving offerings of food, wine, incense, etc.) to Inanna and ask her to stop the effects on this woman. I've never had a chance to do that spell on a woman yet, but I do pray to the Nec deities (who are
very responsive to prayer, and
do hear you), so I would make that the priority.
Btw, how did you do the ritual? Anything special or different from the text, or did you just make the circle, the preliminary invocation, and then the chanting? And how long did it take for you to notice the effects? From what I hear, it can take anywhere from a few days to a few weeks or even months for it to wear off naturally.
And I'm not passing judgement on you, btw, I have done some really stupid (and trust me, you got off easy) things in the past for love with magic. Don't stop doing it, just be careful.