Never be afraid to ask things, worst that will happen is people will think you are an idiot, but if they think that because you asked a question…well lets just say they are lacking something in the intelligence realm.
I will clear that up by saying there are times that it is not correct to ask questions, like while at a theater while the movie or play is going on. Or when someone is working very fast to repair or save something, other then “what can I do to help” questions should be kept to a minimum and instructions followed blindly unless you are sure you know better, or get the feeling that that person is out of their element.
But back to the point. Anger if originating from you (meaning you did not feel like it was angre through some emotional link) is perfectly good and healthy, in fact for me it is the most normal and healthy response to have…something is invading your space, anger is the correct response.
As for tossing and turning, you might want to look into that, not the healthiest of things, though very normal. It is considered by some as problems in the sleep cycle. I sleep on my stomach or side (not healthy for the body) but once out I do not move.
As for dropping things and such, it is probably more to do with nerves and energy used in anger and self-defense/preservation. Not sure it is attacking per say, but it should be invited to go, after that it needs to behave or leave.
This is a very good board, with alot of info on it. Search is your friend. And never be afraid to post to a board...just learn not to argue on them.
Good luck
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--Paxx
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