Angels & Demons, I want the real truth Options

All through history there's been things talking about how Lilith, our ancestor Adam's first wife was demonized because she did not want to be under Adam than being on top. She was considered good one day and evil the next. She makes boy during puberty have wet dreams. So far I heard other stuff that the reason why she has sex with younger boys is to bring them in to the heavens. And maybe that's my problem on the other topic. But the real question is: Since I'm a Catholic I've been taught that her and Lucifer are the most sinister beings on the planet to humans. I want to know is are the set to destory me, you and the rest of the planet or again as usual someone is lying to us. Are demons evil and subject to destroy are not? Because for someone reason everything I've been taught as a kid is fool of shit ass lies. Sorry for vulgar. but it seems that I have to reteach my brain how to destory lies and to accept the real truth.

One last question. This question is the greatest of all for me: Lilith was the first female angel to have sex with a human our ancestor Adam. She parented beings called succub and incubbi. Second Samael had sex with Lilith and Eve. If Lilith + Adam = spirits, Adam + Eve= humans and Samael + Eve = spirits. Then common sense to me to say is that any spirit is a cousin of you, me and everybody else in the world. So am I right or am I crazy(loco)?

I think there is a problem with the Adam and Eve myth being associated with the whole world. Lets look at it realistically, The Adam and Eve/Lilith myth originated in ancient Mesopotamia, and the reason it found its way in the old testament is due to the fact that, Abraham, the first Jew, was a Mesopotamian from Ur. His belonged to a very prominent family that specialized in creation idols, and mainly worshiped the Mesopotamian moon God. I think that's how the Adam and Eve Mesopotamian myth 'bled' into the Old Testament,t and that is why I think that the Jewish calendar is a lunisolar calendar (as Abraham drew influences from his own background i.e. belonging to a family that mainly worshiped a moon god)