Reoccurring Nightmares Options

I'm hoping for a bit of insight. Two heads are better than one, and a dozen are likely better than two (unless they form a committee). I've been having variations on the same nightmare for about 4 years now. I dream that I'm falling off of a wall, a precipice, a ledge, a building, a mountain or whatever. Generally it wake me up. I have been diagnosed with PTSD from violent and stressful incidences. I also had a kundalini opening spontaneously at around the time that this got to be an issue. Normally with PTSD you have nightmares, but they are nightmares about the issues causing the PTSD. I've never fallen off of a ledge or anything, so it seems to me that the falling is symbolic. But I'm not an expert on dream interpretation. One of my teachers gave me a charm with a sigil on it that I've kept beside my bed since and has prevented the nightmare for most of the past two years, but it seems to have stopped working. I'm going to pop in to his place sometime soon and see if the charm needs recharging or renewing or whatever. But I like to examine things from different angles and see if anything else helps. I'm on a waiting list to join a PTSD group, but while I'm waiting I was wondering if there might be something that I'm missing or should know that might be obvious to someone else. I'm smart enough however we often don't have good perspective on ourselves. I've often been lucky in having the right people around to give me the answers I've needed. It isn't something that is life threatening, but it is annoying and I seem to be stuck.

Good news is that I'm back in kungfu class and learning a new martial art. I believe that it is good for my concentration. I'm exchanging lessons with the teacher by teaching him taiji. (We're old qigong partners) The bad news is that it hurts a lot more than when I was younger. lol The class is full of young, fit students who are leaving me with a lot of bruises and giving me a refreshment course in humility. I can probably use it.

This post has been edited by Goibniu: Aug 26 2008, 02:51 AM

Two heads are better than one, and a dozen are likely better than two (unless they form a committee).

lol that should be on a t-shirt or bumper sticker!

But on the matter at hand: In cases of true PTSD, it'll affect every aspect of your life - your relationships, how you socialize, your attitudes towards others, personal behaviors originating on a subconscious level and even your dreams. How significant the PTSD is in relation to this repeating theme within your dreams depends on how you respond physically. If when you have these dreams you wake up with panic (feeling sheer terror), rapid heart rate, chest pains, shaking, profuse sweat, head aches or flash backs then you're not having nightmares, you're having night terrors. Which is very common for people with PTSD.

The thing with that disorder is that it affects people differently depending on how they recover (if they recover) from the trauma. People who get therapy and treat PTSD as soon as possible after the traumatic events are the most likely to maintain normal lives where the disorder has very little influence. Barring that you are actually have night terrors, not nightmares (there is a difference), and given that these dreams have not been common for the last two years, then I would assume that the PTSD has little to do with this repeating theme of falling. But it also depends.

I never like to put any one on the spot, even online. I don't think people appritiate that at all (even if they kind of put themselves in that position) and I think its disrespectful. So the reasons you were diagnosed with PTSD are something I'm not even going to ask you about and its not mine nor anyone else's business. Just keep in mind that if you are actually having night terrors, then it is most deffinately is related to your PTSD. And if it is, then you need to seek professional help as soon as possible (the support group you mentioned is deffinately a good start). But don't wait for it either. If you cannot get in the group within the next few months (litterally within 3-6 months, tops) then you should start looking for alternative solutions. And again it also depends how serious the PTSD is. If you've never delt with through therapy of some kind, then yeah deffinately get help. If you've had therapy or you've been able to cope in a healthy and positive manner, then joining this support group is less urgent.

The reason I'm focusing on getting into the support group is because if you've been having these dreams and then they stopped for awhile and now they are starting again, then it could be a sign that some aspect of the trauma was not resolved and was repressed possibly by the charm. This means that whatever issue this is related to is starting to resurface and it may do so with a vengence. So while I'm comming from a worse case senario angle, don't treat this lightly. You don't want to end having a nervous break down or flip out or something like some people do. - again thats just the worse case, just don't ignore the implications out right.

As far as the charm goes, from a psychological point of view, the charm mat have gave your mind a way to sort of "override" the negative dreams (weather or not they were related to the PTSD). In affect the charm gave you a means to not have the dreams any more and perhaps ignore what they represented. Thus what ever the theme of falling off an edge of some sort represented, was not resolved and is still lingering within your unconscious/subsconscious mind and is now resurfacing. If you've managed your condition appropriately over the last however many years, then what these dreams mean is probably not serious if they have been sporadic and are not actually night terrors.

You can have your friend recharge your charm. As many things do, charms tend to wear out, accumulate gunk and bad energy. So if you haven't had it renewed that might help. But I would only use the charm as a means of alliviating the dreams, not as a cure. Until you resolve what these dreams are telling you, your charm will not work indeffinately. And if it has stopped working that can actually be a sign that whatever these dreams are trying to tell you, they're building momentum and possibly are simply more powerful than the charm is. Which if that is true, then your dreams will undoubtly get progressively worse.

Falling can relatee to fear, anxiety and a loss of control. The theme of falling off an edge since you seem to falling from edges, could represent the end of something or lossing something. Since there doesn't seem to be anyone else involved what you may being lossing (or have lost already) is probably a thing. And when I say thing I mean just about anything that you could have an emotional attatchment to. Be it personal status, wealth, position in life, a well liked car. Just about anything. And at that it could also mean that you are clinging to something. That you are trying to hang on to the edge of something but always loose your grip.

Something to think about though (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)