Anti-love Spell? Options

I apologize if I've posted to the wrong area here, but I could use some advice.I'm beginning to think I may have been targeted with some sort of love spell or an obsession spell, something, by a man that I work with. He doesn't work for my company. He actually supplies a service to my company, and has for as long as I've worked there (three and a half years). Up until recently I really seldom ever saw this man. Now for the last three weeks, he's around every day, always at the same time and I can't get him out of my mind. It's become an obsession. I mean a seriously, extreme distraction. This is not at all like me, and the cognitive dissonance is making me feel like a crazy person There's my rational side that knows the right thing to do is leave all this alone, and then there's the inexplicable really not me side that wants to rush ahead and ask this guy for a date. I'm rationalizing in all kinds of ways.

My questions are these....Does this sound like the work of some kind of spell, or am I just having some kind of bizarre mid-life crisis? What is the best and simplest way to alleviate the problem?

Thank You

First Bym, I will apologize for the abruptness of my post. I joined this forum a couple of years ago, and although I have only posted once before, I lurk quite a bit. So, no, you don't know me even though I feel familiar with some of you. I don't really practice magick, but I meditate quite a lot. It was a series of pretty extraordinary events related to my meditation practice that originally brought me to this forum.

Having said that, let me say that my meditation practice is definitely suffering. My focus is shot at this point and I'm having these strange little interruptions in my thought process. I have these episodes where my thoughts just don't hold together like they should. I don't know how to explain exactly. It's not like forgetting something. It's more like things just don't link up like they should.

Yes, I was ambivalent to this person prior to the last few weeks. We had a pleasant "hey howya doin'" kind of thing going on when we passed each other. Now, even though I'm thinking about him almost constantly I don't even want to be in the same room with him. It's too intense, but even as I try to avoid him I have this urge to spy on him. to follow him around. It's just weird, and yes it was very sudden. There really isn't any reason for him to be around so much either. He seems to be showing up just to get coffee every day.

There's no reason that I wouldn't date him. He's a little younger than men I usually go out with, but it's not a huge difference. He doesn't actually work for the same company, so that's not a problem, and no there are no other strange urges or conflicts.

I live in a major tourist destination, and I work in the hospitality industry. I meet lots of people, no problem. I'm comfortable around just about anyone. I'm not at all shy or coy.

It's late, and I have this feeling that I sound like a lunatic. Thanks for being tolerant. Rest well Bym.

hey...copper! Do you practice magick???? If so I have a couple suggestion since I too, had a similar experience with someone in high school. Turns out he DID manipulate me. The problem is...what do you do when the more you resist the harder it gets to look away or even think? Its like quicksand. So to help you a long, here are some easy spells (of course the magick is mostly in the mind):

You need: A ball of yarn (or some long piece of string). A pair of scissors. Yourself and the person.
Charge the yarn with your own image...make the color red if you like (to represent your heart, or fiery independence). Sometime in your interaction with this man...ask him to hold the end of the string...and as quickly and coldly as possibly cut the string. get the idea?

give him a striped carnation.

If you prefer something more discreet, how bout writing a letter to yourself...under his name? Address it to yourself, and send it to your house (it would be even better if he could post it in the mail). When you open the letter, the letter should be breaking up with you or a letter of indifference. to be especially wicked :flame include some karmic insurance in your lines...eheh: "It isn't you, its me".

or you could draw a picture of his likeness and tape it to a rock and chuck it over your shoulder. (don't abuse the rock...just make sure you're the one in charge)

If these don't work...I'm sorry to say, but you may be stuck with your infatuation. However, sometimes merely getting to know the enemy/person and realizing half of the interest was fed by mystery rather than true interest can solve the puzzle. Who knows...you said you date right? Is he totally unapproachable or otherwise disgusting that you feel you can't give him a chance? Plus, if you ask him out and HE says no...well we know the answer to your origional question: Did he cast a spell on me?

hey...copper! Do you practice magick???? If so I have a couple suggestion since I too, had a similar experience with someone in high school. Turns out he DID manipulate me. The problem is...what do you do when the more you resist the harder it gets to look away or even think? Its like quicksand. So to help you a long, here are some easy spells (of course the magick is mostly in the mind):

You need: A ball of yarn (or some long piece of string). A pair of scissors. Yourself and the person.
Charge the yarn with your own image...make the color red if you like (to represent your heart, or fiery independence). Sometime in your interaction with this man...ask him to hold the end of the string...and as quickly and coldly as possibly cut the string. get the idea?

give him a striped carnation.

If you prefer something more discreet, how bout writing a letter to yourself...under his name? Address it to yourself, and send it to your house (it would be even better if he could post it in the mail). When you open the letter, the letter should be breaking up with you or a letter of indifference. to be especially wicked :flame include some karmic insurance in your lines...eheh: "It isn't you, its me".

or you could draw a picture of his likeness and tape it to a rock and chuck it over your shoulder. (don't abuse the rock...just make sure you're the one in charge)

If these don't work...I'm sorry to say, but you may be stuck with your infatuation. However, sometimes merely getting to know the enemy/person and realizing half of the interest was fed by mystery rather than true interest can solve the puzzle. Who knows...you said you date right? Is he totally unapproachable or otherwise disgusting that you feel you can't give him a chance? Plus, if you ask him out and HE says no...well we know the answer to your origional question: Did he cast a spell on me?

I think these are really good suggestions and will work. My favorite is the yarn because it's direct.