I like the whole privacy angle. That is something I had not considered. No we are not still friends and never will be again. I suppose there could still be some emotional crap I haven't fully come to terms with too that could surround the panty swipe. Its kind of hard to figure how taking something from her could represent having actually taken something from her in real life - since it was more the other way around.
But the privacy angle - now this relationship was a long time ago (as in years). But when we first broke up I didn't delete her from my myspace, yahoo contact list or face book and once in awhile I would check out her profiles - until I finally got over the worst of the emotional crap. So in that sense I could have been invading her privacy. I suppose a dream of this nature now would indicate that maybe I'm not as over that relationship as I had previously thought!
Interesting break through! Thanks for feed back! Now I have something to meditate on. And yes I do have weird dreams. This one was actually pretty mild at that! (IMG:
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