To Forgive and To Forget, Really... how do you do it? Options

Have you had someone really important and beloved to you do something really bad/dissapointing/whatever to you which you simply cannot forgive, not to mention to forget? When in the end you ended up filled with so much hate, mixed with love and resentment no matter what you've tried to really forget and forgive? And the feeling still there like for 2 years as it kept popping into your head even when you were not intentionally want to think and when you least expected it? Well, maybe I'm in a bad mood today, but really... I want to hear your thoughts and experience on dealing with this.

I try my best not to hold grudges, and what grudges I had are diminished by other peoples greater grudges! I'm not weak, I'm just wise enough to realise the devastating consequences that my grudges will provide(bitterness/death/jail).

I hate people who contradict them self by mistake or deliberately.

Sin is in the person who comfirmed/announced he/she has sinned. my very wisdom (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

greatness of me
weakness of me
weakness of them
Jealousy of them

When conbining these qaulitys, usually there be some chaotic consequences lol.

It's this, we all know this, the situation when we talk, my character to others, as they percieve me as big headed, but the fact I can't help, I do provide great sense, people see it as i'm showing off, they raised there voices first, I am not competing with them, simple trying to be heard, as usual they talk shit, the fact I am stronger in the beginning, middle and end messes up peoples heads lol.

I'm just exceptionally odd in my traits, as an example: my name babyalien, it's a beautiful name not of one meaning, but many, injustice for people JUDGE my name, WHO is in the wrong, they are the one's stalking, dictating, belittling me!
they should look in the mirror, cause I take it they think i'm egotistical? if I can come up with such names... then surely I must be a smart sweety ulitmately.

As you see life has messed my head up.

This post has been edited by babyalien: Jun 8 2005, 03:44 PM