Help, i would like a little help from you all... Options

i dont know if this is posted in the right place, but i would really appreciate it if my more powerful acquaintances on this site would please find the time to do a little spell for me. i plan on going into the marines soon, but my life isn't taking the right direction. i need motivation. i need discipline. i need the motivation and direction to get through the rest of school, to become physically fit, to deny the things that are bad for me, and to either find my soulmate or come to terms with the fact that i might have to wait for her to come into my life. i'm poor, my trucks an absolute piece of shit( about to die on me actually), i'm depressed, and i realize that i don't have the power to fix everything at once. maybe that's a bit much to put into one spell, but if any of you could help me i would not only greatly appreciate it, i would be indebted to you. i could do some minor spells for whoever decides to help me. those of you who know you could help, please consider it. (vagrant dreamer, if knowledge is power, your help would be AWESOME.) and again, please. obviously i don't expect everything to be done for me. if you have any spells or tips for spells or just life in general i would appreciate that as well. herbs, stones, talismans, mantras, anything you can think of for me. even if you don't do anything for me, thanks for at least reading this.

i know it's a really foolish and stupid and common problem
and i am stupid for continuing to pursue it but...

I've liked many girls before,
what straight man hasnt?
but i met a girl who really hit me hard,
but she wont even give me a chance
and now she has a boyfriend

it really sucks
and all girls do it too,

idk why i am so unattractive to the oppisite sex

also, i didnt even do anything wrong and everyone started hating me at the same time >:O
what gives?

but that's a seperate problem

uhhh u could just read my post *luck and charisma
but i kinda ramble on in it

well u may feel like it's a huge waste of time but uhhh
maybe u could do it to show me how *useless* interpersonal relationships are

This post has been edited by davisxmonster: Nov 25 2009, 04:41 PM

i know it's a really foolish and stupid and common problem
and i am stupid for continuing to pursue it but...

I've liked many girls before,
what straight man hasnt?
but i met a girl who really hit me hard,
but she wont even give me a chance
and now she has a boyfriend

You will more than likely be rejected by more romantic interests than you will be accepted by. I suggest you get used to it and simply don't take it personally when someone doesn't respond to you the way you want them to. There's no reason to get bent out of shape over something like that. Why on earth would you want to be interested in someone who doesn't show you the same interest in return? I'll bet you there is someone showing interest in you that you are ignoring in kind. This is the odd little cycle of life in the teenage world.

it really sucks
and all girls do it too,

Now don't generalize, you haven't met all girls. It does suck, but you just have to shrug it off and work on things you can directly control. Worrying about whether girls will like you or not is pointless - make yourself a better person, and things like 'charisma' will follow on their own.

idk why i am so unattractive to the oppisite sex

Because you don't fit typical standards of attractiveness that govern most of our perceptions about what is likeable and what isn't. You can either strive to fit those standards, or just give the middle finger to superficiality and know that you will meet a person, a very worthy person, one day who won't be bound by those stupid rules.

also, i didnt even do anything wrong and everyone started hating me at the same time >:O
what gives?

but that's a seperate problem

Hating you? Are you being bullied at school? Is someone actively seeking to sabotage you in some fashion? Hate is a strong word, teens use it a lot, but it's a very serious word. If you mean that you don't get enough attention from your peers or that they treat you with disinterest, that isn't the same thing as hate, and you shouldn't see it as the same thing.

uhhh u could just read my post *luck and charisma
but i kinda ramble on in it

well u may feel like it's a huge waste of time but uhhh
maybe u could do it to show me how *useless* interpersonal relationships are

I did read it, I read every post that is made on this forum, I just don't respond to everything all of the time. Also, you've been playing the same song since you got here and I've pretty much said all i can really say on the subject. Interpersonal relationships are not useless, they serve a wide variety of uses depending on what kind of a person you are.

I wasn't born yesterday, and I have a hard time taking seriously anyone who so blithely ignores the response, advice, and consistent display of interest and care that you have recieved since you got here. If only you could shrug off your social difficulties with the same ease that you shrug off the suggestions and help offered to you on the forum, most of your problems would be solved I think.

peace

thanks vagrant
lol
i found something i can do

and yes
i literally mean hate.
like my friends boyfriend forbade her from talking to me
and ANOTHER friend's did the same thing

which is really weird because until recently they were some of my best friend's and i didnt do anything to them