Our Lord Jesus Christ, Lord or Man? Options

During my internet years, I found info like Jesus married Maria Magdalena, went to India and studied there, that he did not die on the cross. I'm not sure what to believe in. Yesterday, I finished reading Dan Brown's The Da Vinci Code and in it I again read what I've found + Sarah, Jesus's daughter and how Constantine used the "perverted" new testament to make a god out of Jesus to win the Catholic over the Pagan. Altought the book has errors, it is still an interesting read.

What is your opinion on this? Jesus, the Lord or -just- a man?

According to Christianity, Jesus was God and man, and in some cases God himself. He died on the cross for our sins, as is well known. Dying, meaning he took the full brunt of God's wrath. However this offers a strange paradox: God smiting himself. To take the full wrath of God would mean to be obliterated; but to be God also means to eternal. So this loop continues and continues. Until the conclusion is forgiveness.