Should I Ask An Older Woman Out On A Date? Options

Unusual topic? Maybe. Just curious as to what y'all think.

I can't really tell if she's interested in me or not, and I am 20 - I would guess she is 40 or 45. I can't tell if she would be flattered or merely laugh that a kid would ask her out. I don't mind being laughed at, but I have to see her somewhat often, so it could be awkward. I am immune to humiliation, but I'd rather not make her uncomfortable.

I know no one else knows what I personally "should" do; I just want some other opinions on my prospects. Can a 20-year-old ask a middle-aged woman out on a date? Is it done? Is it socially unacceptable?

I resolved at around age 5 not to have anything to do with people, and so far the only people I've really had to deal with are my professors... so I'm unsure about these things. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/13.gif) (My initial plan was to ask "wanna bang?"... but it has been suggested to me that this is a poor approach.)

This post has been edited by Vilhjalmr: Jun 16 2010, 03:34 AM

I once had an older relationship, a gap of around twelve years or so and we lasted approx four years. It was great for both of us, I learned quite a bit and she was able to feel appreciated. I would never take that part of my life away. I'm not sure if that's what will happen with your interest but I wish the best of luck to you.