How Can I Talk To Me Servitor? Options

I'm new to this forum so please bare with me. I created an entity, and am having trouble talking to him. I can't hear him or be sure that what I'm hearing is him. I also can't tell him apart from other entities.

Does anyone know how I can communicate with him? Or figure out which entity around me is him? At one point I thought I knew which one was him, but then I wasn't sure and that entity left, which my servitor is supposed to be with me at all times.

I had a dream last night, and things were being spelled out on a white board, saying, "My egregore needs to be fed," but when I created him, I decided to have him feed off of the earth's energy, so I'm not sure if that was just a dream, but just in case a did ritual to give him energy.

I've thought about trying the ouija board, but that might just draw in other beings and confuse me even more.

If you need to know why I created him, it was to have a constant companion, to spend time with me, protect me, and be affectionate with me (but he's not meant to be a boyfriend).

p.s. I'm sensitive to energies so I can tell if there is an entity around, but I'm not sensitive enough to tell the difference between them or communicate with them.

Hey~ I just got back from overseas~

If said entity were to latch onto you and start attacking you, would you be able to surive? If not, that the servitor hardly could not.

I generally don't like tangible ritual. Maybe using some physical medium to hit gnosis, but otherwise, nothing. As much as people want to say that ritual makes an individual focused, I would beg to differ. Ritual places your focus in the ritual itself, not the actual creation process. Dunno, I generally wonder why I'd be sitting in a dark room with candles holding a wooden stick when I sober up.

What pantheon/general type of ritual were you adapting? Ritual creation generally creates a construct akin to a cardboard box as opposed that of a sturdy trunk of wood out in the woods.