Yo ES,
Not sure if it's kosher to quote from other parts of the message board, but you said on another thread:
QUOTE(Ethereal Sight @ Aug 25 2010, 02:31 AM)
My father demands absolute control over my life and I hate it. Our relationship is essentially frigid and he shows no affection for me. EVER.
That said, if anyone (adult, not my age) hurt me, he would go after them and... errr.... crunch? (IMG:
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Fathers do demand absolute control for the most part - but on the basis of love, if you get my meaning.
Makes me wonder a bit whether the real issue here is with your own dad, and (perhaps) an unconscious fear that if you hurt your dad you'd get pummeled for it. Easier to lash out at someone else's dad than your own. Just a theory...
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Vilhjalmr, it's been radical. Take care, and hope to see you back here!
This post has been edited by monkman418: Sep 1 2010, 09:51 PM