In the library forum Kinjo gave a link to a PDF i recently read an found quite helpful.
Seven steps to CharismaIt only contains a little bit on the magical side but i found it to be quite helpful.
I remember reading a book many years ago called 'Angel Tech: A Modern Shaman's Guide to Reality'
That's the only book i remember ever having a descent section on creating a 'charismatic' aura,
it is also a great read as it has a very unique perspective, one for he collection imo.
I've got most of the girlfriends/****** in my life with the help of magic, mainly due to my social inhibitions.
If what your after is sex/love then approaching rationally an directly might be a good option.
If so then their are loads of rituals etc.. but i would advise you not to ever target a specific individual and to be very sure of the intention you use, an if you are not summon help.
If like me you would rather work on quazi-magical social skills then read what you can an be ready to experiment.
I have come to believe that getting better at 'the game' is probably the best way forward, the chase an all the things you learn on the way is the fun bit,
Skipping the best bit is often an option but for a little bit more effort/bravery you could train yourself to be quite the catch.
Are you buying fish or buying fishing equipment?