The art of seduction is magickal. Its power opens unto you when you know yourself and what you are capable of.
Firstly, magick works when you stack the odds in your favor. That's why all the visualization techniques, ritual props, and so on - it enhances the potency of your focus. So having good social skills is an important prelude to getting someone you want.
As discretion is important in magick, so is it important in seduction. Mystique enhances appeal and potency. Social skills can enhance mystique. Learn the art of conversation. More importantly, learn how to get people to go on about themselves. Watch their body language, learn how to use your own to your advantage, keep your eye open for visual cues. Unless a complete egotistical bore, your target will soon become very aware that they have revealed much of themselves, but know precious little about you. Don't go advertising it all, and don't be overt about letting information trickle rather than pour. Don't deceive, either. Your work will collapse like a house of cards.
Know that your natural scent is far more potent than any designer perfume. Wear essential oils (look up Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab online) if you must, but avoid the disgusting stenches commercial perfumeries concoct with alcohol and death. Consider forgoing underwear and wear scentless deodorant (crystal deodorant, when applied to clean skin, will block odor-causing bacteria). Also, I have not tried it, but the Satanic Bible suggests wiping your genital area with a clean cloth or handkerchief and using it as a pocket square (the hanky you wear in a suit breast pocket).
Confidence is UNDENIABLY magickal. A self-doubting practitioner is sure to fail. Learn either to use your ego to your advantage, or dispel it altogether in the aim of your work. LAShTAL. Conduct your work without lust of result. You should not care if the object of your affection responds to your attempts. This should not be taken to mean that you ought to repulse, or even risk repulsing, your target, of course.
Pay close attention to hygiene - purification of the body temple is never unappreciated by those who would worship there. Tidy facial hair (if any), clean clothes, etc. are important. Anyone who says this is not magickal may want to refer to the preparations required for certain Enochian procedures. Bathing is obviously a common prelude to spiritual work, symbolically or otherwise.
Remember that in order to DESERVE a catch, one must BE a catch. If you wish to maintain a love connection with another person, you must be interesting. Have experiences. Explore your rough edges. Find your grit, your uniqueness, the you that doesn't fit into the narrow confines of the socially acceptable programmed corporate shill.
If you take any basic ideas away from my response, let it be that sexual attraction - and seduction - are multidimensional, multifaceted, and arguably more non-physical than physical. I've learned this and more from experience; I have had a great many monogamous, polyamorous, and casual relationships, eventually discovering that your reasons for engaging in any of those is much more important than your successes.
Disclaimer: I am short (5'7") and skinny (125-135 pounds), albeit broad-shouldered and otherwise well-shaped, but I have been blessed with excellent skin and bone structure, a very broad genetic history (17 nationalities - we mutts are healthy folk), a perpetually youthful look, and have been told I have an attractive face. So although the above are important, I cannot claim that my experience is free from good fortune. But personality, aura, and magnetism trump these effortlessly.
I wish you luck, but even moreso I wish you the ability to see your own value. Once you do, others will too.
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