Can You Honor My Friend? Options

My best friend has killed himself. I found a suicide note he left me today, and called his grandparents, but he had already done the deed.

Now I don't know what to do. I am his only friend, and his grandparents his only family, and I am too far away (he went home for the holidays) to attend his funeral in time. There is no one else to remember him.

I want to keep his memory alive, honor him in some way, but what can I do?

I have nothing of the spiritual in me, so if any of you could find it in your heart to say a prayer or light a candle or whatever you feel appropriate for Kent Shepherd, a good person and better friend despite being a lonely and unfortunate man, you would be do a good thing. He deserves something more than the ramblings of a single drunkard.

Thanks.

This post has been edited by Vilhjalmr: Nov 28 2010, 04:34 AM

My deepest condolences to Kent Shepherd, family and friends. I hope everyone left behind be given the strength and remembers him as a good person he was.

I hope you are holding up better now than a few days ago, Vilhjalmr? Write a personal letter to Kent and ceremonially burn it while you let him go and let him find peace, that's my advice to you.