My First Spell - Why It Didnt Work Options

Hello. I have just started in magick. I have read liber null, futureritual and i am now reading 11 lessons in magick. Does this all worrk? I have tried a seduction spell multiple times, but it seems it has done nothing. Is magick real???
Also is there a link between magick and law of attraction? Do you think law of attraction works?
Any way here is the spell, in any case:


1) Form your statement of intent.
2) Energize with breathing.
3) Create your magickal self and zip it up inside you.
4) Sit in your circle.
5) Visualize and feel a circle of energy. It becomes a tunnel to the target.
6) Reach out and yank the tube into your physical space. Get the sense that the actual
person is standing there in your circle.
7) Create a golden rapport bubble surrounding you both.
8) In imagination, open arms and greet warmly. (Alternative: shake hands warmly.)
9) See your energy extending from your solar plexus to theirs. Represent the same
thing also connecting your third eyes (middle of your forehead) and your groins.
10) Unzip the target, releasing their energy.
11) Unzip yourself, allowing your energy to flow into the target.
12) Physically reach out and remove the target’s head, lowering it over your own.
13) Mentally say, “As I place this head on mine, I automatically and unconsciously
absorb everything I need to seduce and influence this person.”
14) Place their head back on their own body.
15) Mentally step around behind the target. Imagine your arms around her. Imagine
you can feel what she would feel. Simultaneously imagine the sensations from
both perspectives.
16) The two of you now watch a movie screen that shows the two of you doing
whatever it is that you want the two of you to be doing.
17) As this occurs, describe to her all the benefits and values and good feelings that
flow to her as a result. (You should be able to do this in order for it to work.)
18) Step into the target on the movie screen. Feel what she feels as she’s doing
whatever she is doing.
19) Step into the target as she’s standing in the circle, watching the movie play. Feel
what she feels as she watches herself.
20) Keep narrating to her how she is responding. Specifically tell her about her own
responses. Make sure you give her warm, safe, comfortable feelings before you
turn up the heat to more exciting feelings.
21) Step outside of all that. You’re still in the circle with her; see her standing before
you. Say, “You want this now, don’t you!”
22) Hear and see her give her ascent: “Yes, yes I do.” Then zip up her energy
meridians. Lock them closed, locking those thoughtforms inside her.
23) See the energy of those thoughtforms vibrating within her, and spreading up,
down, and all throughout her body.
24) Tell her, “Go. Make these thoughts your own, until you’re compelled to act on
them.” [At this point on the tape, Ross instructs the students to cross out the next
three steps in this ritual that appeared on the original handout. I left them out of
this document as well, as they were unnecessary.]
25) Zip up your own energy meridians.
26) Close the ritual by saying, “My will is now truly and well done.” (Or something to
that effect.)

Ok heres the deal. i think this girl is the perfect for me. But i dont have a crush for her or any emotional luggage. I just know that we are perfect for each other and we share soo many commonalities. Each completing the other. I have a very limited time space to do it as she will soon leave my town. In the past i had her attracted to me, although then i was too scared immature and inexperienced to escalate. I know that if i have the chance to be the two of us for some time, i can get her back (not that i really had her: irony)

From magick, i am clueless. I read liber null, and futiuritual but i cannot understand how magick works. Why it works, or even the process to create a ritual you want. From process wise i just know how to create sigil, and i know that you can charge it with any strong emotion, even physical sense like masturbation.

I didnt really understand the rituals you described, i am starting to get frustrated of the limited time... Is there a ritual you know it works?

also you said this:


"I would also say don't do this kind of magic, but you'll probably have to learn that on your own. Definitely make the object or anchor something you can destroy when you eventually need to."

Why do you say that?

Thanks a lot guys!

From magick, i am clueless. I read liber null, and futiuritual but i cannot understand how magick works. Why it works, or even the process to create a ritual you want. From process wise i just know how to create sigil, and i know that you can charge it with any strong emotion, even physical sense like masturbation.

Desire, intention, and will are three elements within the human psyche and spirit which operate upon the physical (I want a drink of water, so I get a drink of water and carry out all the necessary actions to attain that desire); the psychic (I want to imagine a day on the beach, so I do that, and my psyche carries out all the necessary actions to attain that desire); and the subtle/spiritual/astral/causal levels as well in ways that are less easily described, suffice to say that your spirit carries out similar actions. In ritual, you align your desire, intention, and will through symbolic actions and call some power (whether it is internal/personal or spiritual/impersonal is debatable) to affect changes on the causal plane. When you have more experience, it is more intuitive than it sounds.

I didnt really understand the rituals you described, i am starting to get frustrated of the limited time... Is there a ritual you know it works?

I can't guarantee any ritual because I have no idea if you are able to carry it out properly or not. Beyond that, we don't go around handing out rituals just for the asking to new members. It's not so much a secret issue as it is a matter of community.

also you said this:
"I would also say don't do this kind of magic, but you'll probably have to learn that on your own. Definitely make the object or anchor something you can destroy when you eventually need to."

Why do you say that?

Thanks a lot guys!

I do not doubt your sincerity about how you feel about this girl, although if there is no strong emotion there, you say there is no 'crush' etc., then I wonder whether you are judging with your head or heart in the first place.

The thing of it is, you're accounting for your perceived compatibility - you didn't mention how well and personally you know her - without considering things like the work it takes to stay with someone as they change. You have to have a true love for someone, Agape itself, to see those changes through and appreciate someone not just for their compatibility with you, but for their differences as well. You have to be willing to grow with a person, be changed by them as much as you will inevitably change them.

It sounds trite, but it is better to be ready than to be sure. Take opportunities when you see them, and pursue whoever takes your fancy, but always remember that when it is time, it will be time, and until then no amount of magic will make it time - although magic can bring that time closer if you're willing to sacrifice the experience you would have had otherwise.

Your spirit directs your experience in as much of what could be called a 'plan' as anything else. In its own natural course, you will have experiences that will make you ready for that moment when it comes, if you are introspective and aware of yourself as you have them. If you want to use magic to make this happen more quickly, you will be asking to learn those lessons as quickly as possible, and it is not gentle. But, it works better in the long run than picking a person out of any crowd, no matter how perfect you think they are for you. I took this route, and I wouldn't have expected my partner to be the one I ended up with, but we are very happy going on two and a half years. My expedited lessons were very harsh, but I'm better for it. We even dated when I was younger, and broke up because I thought we weren't compatible. I thought I knew who the perfect match was, and we had even declared for one another. But, not so.

If you use magic to encourage this girl, then the list of ways it can go wrong is a long one. Maybe she will simply not be who you thought she was when you have her to know her long enough. Maybe she'll turn out to be unstable when it comes to relationships (especially having these sudden and foreign feelings for you that you apparently only return mentally and not emotionally). She may come to resent you for not feeling as intensely as she does, but rather than leave she brow beats you constantly to make you feel the way she does. Maybe there are other attachments to her you don't know about and don't have time to consider when you use magic to compel her to you. Maybe the true match for you is already around you and you don't know it - and you miss out on her because you are fixated on this girl and using magic to attach her to you.

That's a short list of examples. Magic to attract the love of a particular person is not very useful. If she is the right person for you, then all you need to do is to show her that, show her who you are and tell her how you feel. If she isn't, then magic isn't going to make her right for you.

That is why I say that. So, give it some real thought. I'm not going to give you a ritual. You have plenty of information now that you can use to piece one together if you still want to, I gave good examples in those steps. But, my personal advice, after a LOT of experience with love and sex magic - who doesn't try at some point? - is to approach love without magic. Love is its own magic, and if it's going to happen, you can't stop it anyway.

peace