Why are you taking time out to ask for advice from complete strangers online when you should be sitting down and talking honestly and openly to you fiance?
Don't waste your life with magick when you could be living your life instead. Don't abdicate responsibility for your life to some magickal entity or force... get out and LIVE!
You manifest your own reality much of the time. If you want to manifest a relationship built on you trying to manipulate your fiance with magick and secrecy then that is the reality you will manifest. I would rather be in a relationship built on honesty and openness, and i'm talking from direct experience of a marriage that ended with me being lied to and cheated on.
Magick is good fun, but remember that it is like a dog. You throw a stick, it fetches. You take it for a walk, not the other way around.
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