Please Can Some1 Help Me In Understanding My Abilities? Options

Hi, this is my 1st post. I hope its in the correct place. I have some empathic abilities which allow me to feel what others feel but it can be confusing as it tends to change my own feelings. Also i can instantly understand why some 1 did what they did without knowing anything about them, like some1s walking down the street and stop and go back the way they came and i instantly know the reason for it. And i often dream things that later happen for real, rarely are they important but i woild like to understand and learn to control it.
Can any1 help me understand these abilities and help me learn controll of them??

This post has been edited by Dark Star: Oct 23 2008, 10:28 AM

welcome to the forum, and welcome to the real world of unique abilities!

lots (some say all people) have these abilities, but they shut them down by filtering them out their reality with their brain

most look at it as a gift, but if it frightens you horribly, then if you deny it repeatedly it will probably go away, forever, filtered out by your brain - your loss, imo

there is no real switch to turn it off or on, but you can work with this filtering ability of your brain to create one, like associating the ability with a number or a special color or a sound, so that when you want to use the ability, you think of that color or sound or number and you effectively unblock it - takes training your mind, bit it works

i use the sound from the old six-million-dollar man tv show lol, associating it with switching on my special abilities, but sometimes they still switch on by themselves, especially if there is a need

its a common practice to question these abilities - some people spend years wondering about them and being afraid of 'the gift' because they believe its not 'normal' and therefore 'scary', but some embrace their unique abilities and seek to develop more, and try to hone what they have to be razor sharp

to deny and run away from a unique ability is to spit in your own face

i'd suggest to use the association switch for control, then work incessantly every day to make your unique abilities even better, guess who's behind doors, on the phone, etc, etc

enjoy,

es

Thank you for replying to my post, i do wish to controll and develope my abilities. I will start practicing your advice.

Well,you have the answer,dont seek it outside yourself.

but anyway,you will be good as a healer,a mind reader,see if this gift is passive or active ,meaning,can you just feel others or influence them as well..?
try this simple excercise,sit with someone,get in trance and try to access their mind,by visualising this mind as a house with many doors in each door you will find something,doors that are locked better not be opened,because they usually contain ,secret fears,phobias and secret desires,trauma, that you dont want to know,and opening these doors can cause the person to go willy nilly,try to plant a thought or image in one of the rooms for example,(thirst) then go back to physical reality,and see if that person feels thirsty,dont ask them ,just let them do it by themselves,if this person does this,then you are an active ESPer if you cannot then you are passive ESPer,there are some people that cannot access other people's minds but also their minds cannot be accessed,see which type you are and choose your ability accordingly.

Good luck brother

Empathy's a great ability to have, and one that, if you learn to develop it, can be very useful. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

I'd suggest learning how to use your power of intuition to interpret empathic messages more clearly; good practise for this can be learning how to do psychic readings or using some kind of oracle, such as Tarot cards.

Good luck!

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This post has been edited by azareth: May 4 2009, 01:01 PM

You are an empath, and you're developing your abilities. Or discovering them.