Anti-love Spell? Options

I apologize if I've posted to the wrong area here, but I could use some advice.I'm beginning to think I may have been targeted with some sort of love spell or an obsession spell, something, by a man that I work with. He doesn't work for my company. He actually supplies a service to my company, and has for as long as I've worked there (three and a half years). Up until recently I really seldom ever saw this man. Now for the last three weeks, he's around every day, always at the same time and I can't get him out of my mind. It's become an obsession. I mean a seriously, extreme distraction. This is not at all like me, and the cognitive dissonance is making me feel like a crazy person There's my rational side that knows the right thing to do is leave all this alone, and then there's the inexplicable really not me side that wants to rush ahead and ask this guy for a date. I'm rationalizing in all kinds of ways.

My questions are these....Does this sound like the work of some kind of spell, or am I just having some kind of bizarre mid-life crisis? What is the best and simplest way to alleviate the problem?

Thank You

Do you have any reason to believe this may be the case with this man? Is it possible others feel this way as well? Maybe he just has that kind of general magnetism that attracts people. I've had a few acquaintances like that, people that you just want to be with even though you barely know them. Just 'ordinary' people, but for whatever reason despite having no overtly fantastic qualities, just have a natural draw about them.

Does he remind you of someone? Is he particularly attractive, even in a way you aren't normally attracted to someone?

If it were a love spell, chances are you wouldn't notice. Magic like that tends to obscure your perception so that it seems perfectly natural. You could try a general banishing, but I am not sure that will have any effect since my instinct is to think this is probably not magical in nature.

We like adventure, we like mystery, we like to imagine going after something we dont' have or think we can't or shouldn't have. We like to fantasize about the guy who comes through the office once in a while, or our next door neighbor, etc. There is nothing about this that sounds at all unnatural to me - even the most reserved and practical people fantasize and it can become an obsession. I've been there with a couple of the aforementioned acquaintances, and I know them well enough now to know that they have no interest, certainly no experience, with any kind of magic. Some people are just like that.

Is it impairing you at all, do you think? Causing real emotional stress or damage? Keeping you up at night or curbing your appetite. Do you still feel you could be happy without this person in your life, or are you just 'overwhelmingly' interested? What else is going on in your life? A lot of mundania? Regular schedules and patterns that never seem to change, or have been the same for along time? Are you married or in a relationship, and if so are you happy?

Ask yourself these questions. If you can answer them reasonably, then it isn't magic. You can use magic to make a person obsessed with you, or someone else, but it becomes an unreasonable obsession where the person will make excuses for their thinking, rationalize it all away, and consider it perfectly natural, and just go with it like there's nothing wrong. The fact that you can question it is a good sign.

peace

Thank you Vagrant Dreamer for your reply. I actually am quite happy except for this strange little blip. I'm not in a relationship, in fact I date quite a lot. This whole thing seems to have come out of nowhere. I mean it's not as though I haven't known the man for years, but perhaps you're right and I should just accept if for what it is. That being a huge distraction for the time being.

Greetings!
First, welcome to the forum! (I'm terrible about staying up with this greeting...no, I don't have a good excuse...just old age.)
I do hope the good people here can give you some good advice or, better still, a broader understanding!

This being said, I'm going to throw some more questions your way...
We don't know you nor do we have any idea of how you think. Don't worry, LOL!, we're not looking for intrusive disclosure.

From what I gather is that this behavior is sudden? Are you experiencing an urge to change your life/lifestyle? If you were on the market, would this guy be in your range or someone with whom you would date? (Do you see where I'm going with this?)

Look at yourself and ask yourself some of these questions. Try to establish the playing field before rushing off with the idea of mind control. It has been my experience that most love spells work best on those that cast them. You are the best person available to be changed! Obsession needn't come from without. Somehow your 'gears', his and yours, are meshing nicely. The best and easiest way to stop this is to walk away and actively force yourself to have nothing to do with him whatsoever.

Psychic manipulation can manifest on a number of different levels. If you originally didn't like him or, better still, werte totally ambivalent towards him, then the symptoms may be sleepless nights, intense dreams and daydreams about him, headache and or stomachache followed by gaps in your memory or recall. Certain centers of the body respond to the 'alien' influence and will give marked results. Severe ennervation after being near him is another sign of manipulation. (Not all manipulation is for love, lust or obsession...some is for thought control, psychic vampirism, etc.)

So, you see, it's not all cut and dried. You must learn if it is you that is behind this or if it really is him (or someone helping him).
If it is you, then perhaps giving in for a date will tell you alot.
There are many tricks/methods for stopping an unwanted influence from 'tapping' you. Introduce a fiery red carnelian to your aura, somewhere near the solar plexus region of the body, or a piece of obsidian, there are many more. Practice strengthening your aura. (This is something everyone here should do, anyways!) Meditate and try to raise your vibration rate. Attune yourself to your higher self.

I could write a whole discertation but it's time for my pablum and a lie-down. *sigh* Our membership has many innovative and remarkable people. They will most likely give you some good advice. Most of them are far more articulate than I, and so, I wish you luck and a good journey! PM me with any further reflections if you'd rather not divulge too much to a public forum. I will be glad to talk your ear off! LOL! Be well! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/i_triangle.gif)

First Bym, I will apologize for the abruptness of my post. I joined this forum a couple of years ago, and although I have only posted once before, I lurk quite a bit. So, no, you don't know me even though I feel familiar with some of you. I don't really practice magick, but I meditate quite a lot. It was a series of pretty extraordinary events related to my meditation practice that originally brought me to this forum.

Having said that, let me say that my meditation practice is definitely suffering. My focus is shot at this point and I'm having these strange little interruptions in my thought process. I have these episodes where my thoughts just don't hold together like they should. I don't know how to explain exactly. It's not like forgetting something. It's more like things just don't link up like they should.

Yes, I was ambivalent to this person prior to the last few weeks. We had a pleasant "hey howya doin'" kind of thing going on when we passed each other. Now, even though I'm thinking about him almost constantly I don't even want to be in the same room with him. It's too intense, but even as I try to avoid him I have this urge to spy on him. to follow him around. It's just weird, and yes it was very sudden. There really isn't any reason for him to be around so much either. He seems to be showing up just to get coffee every day.

There's no reason that I wouldn't date him. He's a little younger than men I usually go out with, but it's not a huge difference. He doesn't actually work for the same company, so that's not a problem, and no there are no other strange urges or conflicts.

I live in a major tourist destination, and I work in the hospitality industry. I meet lots of people, no problem. I'm comfortable around just about anyone. I'm not at all shy or coy.

It's late, and I have this feeling that I sound like a lunatic. Thanks for being tolerant. Rest well Bym.

hey...copper! Do you practice magick???? If so I have a couple suggestion since I too, had a similar experience with someone in high school. Turns out he DID manipulate me. The problem is...what do you do when the more you resist the harder it gets to look away or even think? Its like quicksand. So to help you a long, here are some easy spells (of course the magick is mostly in the mind):

You need: A ball of yarn (or some long piece of string). A pair of scissors. Yourself and the person.
Charge the yarn with your own image...make the color red if you like (to represent your heart, or fiery independence). Sometime in your interaction with this man...ask him to hold the end of the string...and as quickly and coldly as possibly cut the string. get the idea?

give him a striped carnation.

If you prefer something more discreet, how bout writing a letter to yourself...under his name? Address it to yourself, and send it to your house (it would be even better if he could post it in the mail). When you open the letter, the letter should be breaking up with you or a letter of indifference. to be especially wicked :flame include some karmic insurance in your lines...eheh: "It isn't you, its me".

or you could draw a picture of his likeness and tape it to a rock and chuck it over your shoulder. (don't abuse the rock...just make sure you're the one in charge)

If these don't work...I'm sorry to say, but you may be stuck with your infatuation. However, sometimes merely getting to know the enemy/person and realizing half of the interest was fed by mystery rather than true interest can solve the puzzle. Who knows...you said you date right? Is he totally unapproachable or otherwise disgusting that you feel you can't give him a chance? Plus, if you ask him out and HE says no...well we know the answer to your origional question: Did he cast a spell on me?

hey...copper! Do you practice magick???? If so I have a couple suggestion since I too, had a similar experience with someone in high school. Turns out he DID manipulate me. The problem is...what do you do when the more you resist the harder it gets to look away or even think? Its like quicksand. So to help you a long, here are some easy spells (of course the magick is mostly in the mind):

You need: A ball of yarn (or some long piece of string). A pair of scissors. Yourself and the person.
Charge the yarn with your own image...make the color red if you like (to represent your heart, or fiery independence). Sometime in your interaction with this man...ask him to hold the end of the string...and as quickly and coldly as possibly cut the string. get the idea?

give him a striped carnation.

If you prefer something more discreet, how bout writing a letter to yourself...under his name? Address it to yourself, and send it to your house (it would be even better if he could post it in the mail). When you open the letter, the letter should be breaking up with you or a letter of indifference. to be especially wicked :flame include some karmic insurance in your lines...eheh: "It isn't you, its me".

or you could draw a picture of his likeness and tape it to a rock and chuck it over your shoulder. (don't abuse the rock...just make sure you're the one in charge)

If these don't work...I'm sorry to say, but you may be stuck with your infatuation. However, sometimes merely getting to know the enemy/person and realizing half of the interest was fed by mystery rather than true interest can solve the puzzle. Who knows...you said you date right? Is he totally unapproachable or otherwise disgusting that you feel you can't give him a chance? Plus, if you ask him out and HE says no...well we know the answer to your origional question: Did he cast a spell on me?

I think these are really good suggestions and will work. My favorite is the yarn because it's direct.