Energetic Link That Use The Eyes, Binding with the eyes Options

Greetings all,

It has been a rather long time since I posted here. Nice to be back, though. I have spent the last few years working with Taoist internal alchemy. Fun stuff, but I had an idea that I think requires something other than internal alchemy.

I have a lady friend that I am quite close to, it seems reciprocal, that I am away from and mostly out of touch with for about six months of the year. I had the idea while we where talking about how it sucks to be apart for so long and how much better we both felt when we were together. My idea was to create a spiritual/ energetic link between the two of us, for the purpose of "feeling" together in a physical way.

Frankly, this is out of my skill level. I have done all most no work with external energy for about a year and a half now. I am positive I can establish a resonance with her, but that only helps me. Correct me if I am wrong but I think i need to alter part of her to establish a bond that works both ways.

I ran across a reference in some of my old notes about connections being formed when people gaze into each others eyes. Would this help with my endeavor?

I've grown up around taoist influences as a kid, and the one thing I can tell you is that the system forgets that everything is connected together, in some sick, Gestaltian way (I am by no means a scholar, so correct me if i'm using the idea wrong). Given that you've studied taosim (mystic or philosophical, actually? there are two distinct religious branches, from what I remember), you should have a strong, strong strong sense of grounding, so what you can do is extend your consciousness outwards, until you can hit hers.

Another way is to simply recall 'her' and her essence, then just chase after that energy signature until you can reach her.

The system does not so much forget that things are linked as much as it strives for harmony with them as a chain of interlinked relations. The only time I have known of Taoist magick systems to work with external energies is when dealing with sprites. The rest of the time they tend to follow the axiom that the individual is a hologram of the universe- change yourself and the world changes with you. I used an odd mix of Dragon Gate sect and martial Taoism, so philosophical with mystic implications.

what you can do is extend your consciousness outwards, until you can hit hers.

Another way is to simply recall 'her' and her essence, then just chase after that energy signature until you can reach her.

I like the Second option. As I said, I am too out of practice with external energy. Slightly bothersome, I have to do something about that.

I seek out the part of her that accessible within myself and perhaps cultivate the part of me accessible within her. I am not sure it would last very long with out her helping to maintain the link, but it a good place to start. She is not a magick user, and not even especially sensitive. That is why I was thinking about some kind of banding, so she would not have to work at maintaining the connection, and I would not have to shore it up every few weeks.

I suppose a strong enough spell could aid the link in some way. I’ll have to think on that one.

Edit: I looked up Gestalt and you chose the right word. It is surprising what how science tends to hit on other wise esoteric understandings.

This post has been edited by fatherjhon: May 5 2010, 01:39 PM

hey fatherjhon! - how bout using something like scrying with a crystal to find her, then hook into that with some sort of linkage bound into a stone or crystal? - not her spirit or energy bound into the stone, but only the linkage to her bound into the stone - another thing is that i would need a way to turn it off from time to time, so i'd use prefer to use something like a crystal or stone linkage that when stored away is dormant - even better if she would provide the energy for such a linkage to make it easier - think a video-phone rock

hey fatherjhon! - how bout using something like scrying with a crystal to find her, then hook into that with some sort of linkage bound into a stone or crystal? - not her spirit or energy bound into the stone, but only the linkage to her bound into the stone - another thing is that i would need a way to turn it off from time to time, so i'd use prefer to use something like a crystal or stone linkage that when stored away is dormant - even better if she would provide the energy for such a linkage to make it easier - think a video-phone rock

How've you been esoterica. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)

Crystals, yeah, coming back to me now; focuses that channel, amplify and constrain a spell. A scrying crystal that finds her would already have a path to her I could use, simplifying maters greatly. My will and energy worked the crystal so the link is already established to myself and once the scrying finds her, I can bind the stone so that it is a focus for the link. Having her provide energy for the binding would make it easier for the crystal to work both ways. A spell that gives shape to the sensed energy could draw its power from the link itself. In theory, the link would only need a little energy to reestablish a connection. If the crystal were close enough, whenever one of us thought about it, and the link, it would reconnect.

Any chance I would need to make two crystals like that? I don’t think physical proximity to the crystal would matter on my end- I can likely reestablish the link, even if I don’t have the crystal. However, she might need extra help seeing, as she has no practice in magick. One to find me and one to find her? It occurred to me that two would create a barrier in the connection, so that both would need to be active in order for it to work.

I would say gazing into ones eyes might make some sort of spiritual connection this might be a possible outcome. But if you want o see her that bad if she practices magick why dont you both just get a meeting spot that is well known for you both and astral travel there? This is just something im throwing out there for maybe another method good luck to ya.

But if you want o see her that bad if she practices magick why dont you both just get a meeting spot that is well known for you both and astral travel there?

That would simplify matters, but she does not practice magick in any form, not even a religious form. So getting her to astral project probability is not going to happen.

That would simplify matters, but she does not practice magick in any form, not even a religious form. So getting her to astral project probability is not going to happen.

Ah yeah that would be much simpler. Just curious is she a really godly person? If she has an open mind maybe try to talk to her about Astral travel tell her the pro's and con's of it and how you to could always be together no matter were you are in the world maybe you could convince her to give it a shot and it sounds like you have quite a bit of knowledge so just explain it best ya can to her never know she might take a shine to it. Hope she does for ya (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif).