The only time I seem to be able to get any accurate information through the use of a pendulum is when my mom is with me. When I hold it is really seems to be more affected by my thoughts. Meaning that if I want an answer to be yes I can generally manipulate the answer (without touching it of course). Could this be because I'm insecure in my abilities or afraid of an inaccurate reading?

Any effective tips when working with a pendulum?