Offerings To The Holy Ones, It can be challenging! Options

Would anyone possibly have any good suggestions of offerings for Gods, specifically ones of Chaos, Destruction, and Darkness/Night? I would assume that aything personal or special to you, but of course I don't think a God of Destruction would appreciate flowers, am I right? Wine of course, would usually suffice, as would milk.. but I'm thinking more along the lines of solid objects. I guess the main reason is that: 1. I feel I do not respect/show my respect fully and 2. I would like to contact Them, but from what I've learned, It is unwise to approach such powerful Gods without some sort of offering.

And then contributing to the community, I've found Spirits and Gods of Earth like stones that you have found.. ones that just "clicked" when you saw them and you said "Oh my, that is one beautiful/powerful stone!" and simarly, those of Water appreciate daily offerings of pure water from a natural source.

Just to share whatever knowledge I've acquired of her...

I have noticed that Hecate really enjoys it when I pour her a libation of honey, wine, and garlic cloves in the sacred mound in my garden. Every time I do it, usually for her sake and just to celebrate her, the day afterward is blessed. Excellent things happen. Lots of good little things here and there. Just an overall excellent day. I always do it under the cover of nightfall though. That's when it's best.

Sometimes I do it with an intent. Sometimes I do it just because I really like her and want to show her my devotion. But I think that either way, she ends up very pleased. A few days ago, I poured one, forgot I even poured it the night before, and I had the best day ever. The best reward is that which is done selflessly for your devotion to her. I don't like doing anything with intent too much. She's a busy dark lady.