Sadly, this is often the case that a few people will talk about chat, but not get round to the chatting part.
Even on very large forums, unless there is a crisis ie: like no forums, no-one shows up, even then, out of thousands in a crisis, you may only get a handful to a dozen at any one time, albeit they will be a different dozen over the day, but that is how it goes.
Well done for trying though (IMG:
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