First,you must understand that the state of orgasm and the release of the sperm,or ejaculation,is,in fact, not the same thing.
Normaly when you 'simply having sex' (hey,I like this phrase)or masterbation.you'll ejaculate off when you reached orgasm. That is normal,yes.
But that doesn't mean you must always shoot every time you reach Orgasm.
Well, this's hard to explained. Then let's go directly to an experiment.
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1.Find an isolate space that you can do this nasty thing without disturb.
2.Tell yourself that this's gonna be a slow,smooth,work like a classical song.Eat some sigil if you wish.
3.Take off your pants and grab your weapon,begin masturbation,yes,I mean it.(of course you can do this with your partner also if you have enough skills)
4.Ah Ah! do it ....slowwwwwlyyyyyy..... breath lightly,relax your abdomen muscle.Observe your feelings well.
5.Go on keep it smooth and FOCUS ON RELAXING your abdomen!
6.When it nearly come,stop.SQUEEZE YOUR a$%*#!*!(just like holding your shit in) you must react very quickly and squeeze definitely hard. Squeeze for 10-20sec.
7.When it calm down further your lovely masturbation,again,keep relax and slow.
8.Enjoy building,holding, and rebuilding for few rounds.
9.At last FIRE AT WILL! FEEL THE SQUEELING PLEASURE ! (IMG:
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have fun...man