My "you idiot" was not a personal attack at you (although i see how it could easily be interpretedas such) it was a just a generalised use of language to be illustrative about the types of responses that the usual closed individual would provide. But yes i see how it could easily be construed that way when it was typed and not spoken. I apologise for any hurt i caused you, and as you should note from the rest of my post my intent was not to belittle but to educate. Here and in other posts of mine recently i hjave learned the hard way that typed responses are taken a lot more literally (surprise surprise) than they would be if the same words were spoken. Thankyou for being part of my learning process in this!!!! (and sorry again).

My "you idiot" was not a personal attack at you (although i see how it could easily be interpretedas such) it was a just a generalised use of language to be illustrative about the types of responses that the usual closed individual would provide. But yes i see how it could easily be construed that way when it was typed and not spoken. I apologise for any hurt i caused you, and as you should note from the rest of my post my intent was not to belittle but to educate. Here and in other posts of mine recently i hjave learned the hard way that typed responses are taken a lot more literally (surprise surprise) than they would be if the same words were spoken. Thankyou for being part of my learning process in this!!!! (and sorry again).