Destiny? I Need Help! Options

Okay so about a year ago this girl moved from Virginia. Automatically we became best friends. We have everything in common except personalities.
Just reacently my night terrors have been getting worse. i told my friend, Ams, about it and she said that she is having the exact same night terrors (with some exceptions). I've had them every night for at least a week. I don't even want to close my eyes.

My friend dreams things that haven't happened yet. for example she dreamed that her mom was going to have cancer, again, and she did. . I see and hear things that other people can't. For example, i saw this young man in my basement for a minute when Ams and i were hanging out. then just like that he vanished. the next day i was looking through pictures with Ams and saw who the man was. It was Ams oldest brother. he died when she was younger. lately though it's been getting worse and i'm really freaked out. It's always different when we're together though. In some strange reason i can't explain.
Is there something to explain this?
Ams thinks it might be this thing called destanio or something like that. where one soul was split in half, and by some chance the two halves meet. but i dunno. I want some answers. please don't tell me that we're imagining it because we aren't. I just need help please!
thanks in advance... Sierra.

Okay so about a year ago this girl moved from Virginia. Automatically we became best friends. We have everything in common except personalities.
Just reacently my night terrors have been getting worse. i told my friend, Ams, about it and she said that she is having the exact same night terrors (with some exceptions). I've had them every night for at least a week. I don't even want to close my eyes.

My friend dreams things that haven't happened yet. for example she dreamed that her mom was going to have cancer, again, and she did. . I see and hear things that other people can't. For example, i saw this young man in my basement for a minute when Ams and i were hanging out. then just like that he vanished. the next day i was looking through pictures with Ams and saw who the man was. It was Ams oldest brother. he died when she was younger. lately though it's been getting worse and i'm really freaked out. It's always different when we're together though. In some strange reason i can't explain.
Is there something to explain this?
Ams thinks it might be this thing called destanio or something like that. where one soul was split in half, and by some chance the two halves meet. but i dunno. I want some answers. please don't tell me that we're imagining it because we aren't. I just need help please!
thanks in advance... Sierra.

Sierra, it sounds like your abilities are opening up. If its due to your new friend I can't say but it might just be as simple that its time or you came across a certain level of understanding that allowed you to start seeing spirits better.

Thanks for the reasurance. I'll keep you posted on what happens

It does sound like you may have some latent psychic abilities that you are becoming aware of. The only concern I see is you have these night terrors. You mean nightmares? Night terrors only occur during the 4th stage of the sleep cycle, mostly in child between 6-12 and is characterized by having several episodes of expressing extreme fear and distress without actually waking up. So like talking in your sleep? Well a night terror is screaming and panicing in your sleep.

Nightmares on the other hand, if they are reoccuring often have to do with anxiety. I would be looking at your life and asking yourself some questions like have you recently gone through some major social changes, has anyone close to you recently passed away, have you had a near death experience (this would especially affect you at your age), have you ever been abused or neglected, have you recently lost some friends (as in you don't hang out with them anymore), are you having "boy problems" and so on and so fourth.

Your dreams might simply be the result of changes you are going through simply from puberty. Have you considered seeing your school councilor or talking with a parent about these dreams?

Dreams, for the most part, are not magickal. Dreaming about your friend's mom and having similar dreams with her can be explained simply because you two hang out and as a result aspects of your selves wear off on eachother. But again it is possible that you are discovering some psychic abilities. While I would embrace this gift I would also not be quick to discount the rational reasons either. In my experience the most simplistic and logical answer tend to be the right one.

With the whole destiny thing I think to an extent our lives are pretty much laid out for us, depending on the actions we take and where life takes us in general. So in that sense, destiny is why you would meet anybody. I don't believe that "soul mates" are predestined. I think that as we get to know people we build bonds with them on a spiritual level. Those who we build the strongest bonds to are our soul mates. But that doesn't mean those bonds can't break and that soul mates are forever or somehow predestined.

Thanks for the help i'll talk to my friend about it. She's more freaked out about it that i am. Should i just let it run it's course?

I would give your friend the support she needs and help her cope with the situation with her mom. At the same time, don't let your friends problems consume you too. There is only so much can do and really only so much you should do and thats be there for her, be supportive, don't turn her down if she needs a shoulder to cry on and do alll that you can to make sure she enjoys life her mom for the time and help her to remember that just because life can be tough, doesn't mean there isn't any joy in it.

Thanks for the advice. That really helps a lot. I'll do that.