Revelation Of Seductive Power, Came to me in meditation Options

I was taking an afternoon nap, and as usual, my head was filled with the usual of women, girls, and getting my freak on. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/banana.gif) (IMG:style_emoticons/default/001.gif)

I thought about what I wanted, why I wanted it, and why it felt good.

In short, I didn't like to be so much as the hunter, but rather, I liked to be the one seduced. I thought to myself, "How can I make myself more approachable for a seductive woman?" (IMG:style_emoticons/default/confused012.gif)

So, I began to search the net. Nothing. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/giveup.gif) I went back and napped some more, and woke up an hour later. As I was waking up, it flashed in my mind... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/Lighten.gif)

First was that stand-offish assistant at the local metaphysical store, staring me down and saying, "If you can't find it within, you will never find without." (IMG:style_emoticons/default/blablabla.gif) I scoffed at her, because to me, the logic was flawed. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/haha.gif) Why bother finding something without if you found it within in the first place? Then what's the reason for relating to others which are outside yourself? (IMG:style_emoticons/default/nonono.gif)

Then, it hit me. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/lightning.gif) It's not so much as I wanted to be the man who was seduced in social situations, but rather, my mind was projecting onto an ubiquitous feminine "other" the qualities that I wanted to integrate into myself to reach a closer proximity to the feminine divine, and therefore closer to women.

I had to be the one to develop seduction. Not the woman. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/020000011.gif) If I didn't have seduction that I could share with a woman who also had it, how can we relate to one another? It would have been a totally foreign vibe to me, otherwise. I would have to learn it to understand it, to love it.

This is what I learned about the lesson of "As within, therefore without," as it pertains to relationships. Guys, you want something from the feminine? Develop it yourself, so the feminine can connect with you there.

If anything, the feminine wants to reach you, too!! Do as a real man would and reciprocate the lovins!! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/evilB.gif)

Comments? Thoughts? (especially from the female denizens of SM, I would like your input on what I have discovered, and want to know if you agree?)

That's a really wonderful universal perspective towards all things. In a sense, all things, especially anything that works with a living, sentient system tends to work best when you're capable of knowing and feeling exactly what you're working with and putting upon other people