Contacting Dead Relatives Options

I wasn't really sure which forum to put this in, so if it's in the wrong one please tell me and I'll try to fix it. But onto the actual reason for this post. My grandmother died recently, and by recently I mean a little over a month ago and while it wasn't an unexpected event did happen suddenly. Now some time has passed and I've begun to feel her presence in my house. I think she's trying to make contact with me, because as time has gone by I've noticed that her presence in the house has grown stronger. So essentially I what ways there were to contact her. I can't help but get the feeling that the reason she's still coming around is because she has some unfinished business, or she's worried about me and I would very much like to alleviate whatever is bothering her. I'm rather inexperienced in this field so if anyone has any advice or methods on how to reach her I would really appreciate it.

is anything physical happening? if so please give examples. I first of all would advise to stay away from Ouija boards since they are trouble. But you could try a seance

Try lighting a candle, preferably an unused one, turning off all other lighting in the room and going into a deep, meditative state. In this state, visualise a protective circle around yourself and, if possible, ask your spirit guide or matron/patron deity to protect you during the communication with your grandmother and to make sure that it is her you're communicating with and not just a trickster spirit or unintentional thoughtform. Next, whilst still in the meditative state, state that you wish to communicate with your grandmother, using her full name and stating the names of her parents too (if possible) and any other details to help ensure it is her and not another spirit. You may have to wait or make the request several times, but when she does appear talk to her as though she were still alive in the physical world too.

When you are ready to say goodbye, tell her that she is free to go and say goodbye in a warm, loving, caring way. (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif) Once she's left, visualise the circle disappearing, turn the light on, extinguish the candle, place your feet firmly on the floor and drain off any excess energy into the ground, and go get some food and/or drink to help ground yourself again.

Obviously that's not a rigid ritual or anything, more of a guideline, so do what feels natural to you! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)

Good luck! (IMG:style_emoticons/default/smile.gif)

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Umm. Just ask. Seriously, if you can sense her presence, then just seriously ask said presence. If she's coming about still, and you can't contact her, then seriously just let her hang around until she makes a coherent response. You can't honestly know for sure what she really wants.

Has her presence in the HOUSE grown stronger or has her presence around YOU grown stronger? She may just want to be with your family for a while before she moves on, or she may want to speak with you specifically. I never even MET my grandmother and she's one of my two guardian spirits (her and saint michael - though she protects me and he guides me and empowers me). She takes the form of a brown and tan cat when I see her (which is rare) but every time she's there I smell woodsmoke. Not like faint tingly "is that woodsmoke?" thing, like, it smells like somebody's burning a log cabin. Anyway, try pulling out a ouija board or a tape recorder and asking her - if she wants to communicate it should be fairly easy.

Nothing physical has happened so far. It's not like things have started moving around; there was already a spirit in my house that did that but I took care of him (IMG:style_emoticons/default/gun2.gif) . As for my grandmother's presence I would say it's a little bit of both. Her presence in the house has indeed grown stronger, however I also feel it when I'm out sometimes. The feeling comes randomly, but whenever it does I can always smell her scent(i use the word scent because it's more than just perfume and stuff, it's just what she smells like) and I feel as if someone is looking over my shoulder. It doesn't seem to be triggered by anything so I'm a bit confused as to what she wants. I will try to contact her in the near future so hopefully I will be able to find out. Thank you for your advice and if anyone has anything else to add please feel free to contribute.

After my grandfather passed when I was like 10, he sort of stuck around to make sure everybody was okay. Passing on is not exactly a required protocol. In all honesty, if she wants to go, a psychopomp can help her, and if she has unfinished business, she could easily get it done on her own.

post back if you get anything, I wouldn't mind hearing about it